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		<title>Homeschoolers Fair</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Jan 2011 11:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Homeschoolers Fair was held on the 18th of December 2010 at Little Flower Kindergarten and Open School, Viman Nagar, Pune.  It was a great space for new homeschoolers to connect with parents and children who have been homeschooling and unschooling for some time, and to find out what goes on re homeschooling.  Some of our [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=516&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Homeschoolers Fair was held on the 18th of December 2010 at Little Flower Kindergarten and Open School,<br />
Viman  Nagar, Pune.  It was a great space for new homeschoolers to connect  with parents and children who have been homeschooling and unschooling  for some time, and to find out what goes on re homeschooling.  Some of  our friends and relatives also participated, which increased the  diversity on display, making the fair both interesting and fun.</p>
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<p>Beyblade matches kept the little fellows absorbed.</p>
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<p>Art, poetry and lomography by Flavius and Sahya.</p>
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<p>Ancient Egyptians visiting the Indus Valley Civilization project organized by Idania for Pune Homeschoolers of all ages.</p>
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<p>Target for blow pipe and newspaper arrows by Uday.</p>
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<p>Macrame swings, mirrors and key holders by Swati.</p>
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<p>Ancient Egypt project by Little Flower Open School.</p>
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<p>Delicious bhel by Mrs. Bharadwaj, chip-dip or bread-dip and jewelry by Divya.</p>
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<p>Bookstall: Eco tales by Muriel, unschooling books by Sandra Dodd, Astronomy by Uday, Dreams by Dr. F A Menezes.</p>
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<p>Greeting Cards by Niom</p>
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<p>A wonderful time was had by all!</p>
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		<title>Tree Fest: Pune</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Oct 2010 11:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>sahya</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Outdoors]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Pune Tree Fest took place from 25th September to 2nd October. Here are some photos from some of the events&#8230; &#8220;The Pune Tree fest is an attempt to draw attention to the trees and greenery around us in the city of Pune during one focused week. The idea is to celebrate our trees – [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=393&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>The Pune Tree Fest took place from 25th September to 2nd October. Here are some photos from some of the events&#8230;<br />
</strong></p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;The Pune Tree fest is an attempt to draw attention to the trees and greenery around us</em><br />
<em> in the city of Pune during one focused week. The idea is to celebrate our trees – through</em><br />
<em> poetry, art, walks, theatre, public meetings and knowledge-sharing about activities like</em><br />
<em> composting, organic farming, tree tagging, tree names, etc. through small events at various</em><br />
<em> locales in the city, rather than any big centralized events.</em></p>
<p><em>Several Pune groups have come together for this venture – Open Space, Pune Tree</em><br />
<em> Watch, oikos for ecological services, CREDAI, Garden Department of Pune, Ecological</em><br />
<em> Society, Green Hills Group, Jividha, One Life Club Panchavati, Kalpavriksh, Rotary club</em><br />
<em> of Poona West, amongst others, as well as interested individuals and schools – colleges</em><br />
<em> like Symbiosis Arts &amp; Commerce students who are gifting their time and expertise to the</em><br />
<em> venture.&#8221;</em></p></blockquote>
<p><em> </em></p>
<p>______________________________________________</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><em>Photos Courtesy: Niranjan </em></p>
<p><strong>Jogger&#8217;s Park, Viman Nagar, 25th Sep</strong></p>
<p>Viman Nagar inauguration at Jogger&#8217;s Park.</p>
<p><img title="IMG_6101" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6101.jpg?w=531&#038;h=354" alt="" width="531" height="354" /></p>
<p>Tying friendship bands on trees.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-497" title="IMG_6086" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6086.jpg?w=532&#038;h=354" alt="" width="532" height="354" /></p>
<p>Tying friendship bands on trees all around Viman Nagar.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-495" title="IMG_6137" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6137.jpg?w=535&#038;h=356" alt="" width="535" height="356" /></p>
<p>Bharat Natyam dance by a student resident of Viman Nagar</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-494" title="IMG_6129" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6129.jpg?w=532&#038;h=354" alt="" width="532" height="354" /></p>
<p>Lighting candles around a tree.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-496" title="IMG_6169" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6169-e1288425913100.jpg?w=316&#038;h=474" alt="" width="316" height="474" /></p>
<p>______________________________________________</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Empress Gardens, Prince of Wales Drive, 26th Sep </strong></p>
<p>Poetry Reading, Music and Drum Circle!</p>
<p><img title="IMG_6177" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6177.jpg?w=538&#038;h=358" alt="" width="538" height="358" /></p>
<p>Many recited poems around the theme of nature and trees.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-488" title="IMG_6190" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_61901-e1288423175565.jpg?w=285&#038;h=427" alt="" width="285" height="427" /></p>
<p>Randhir Khare reads out a poem.</p>
<p><img title="IMG_6194" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6194.jpg?w=535&#038;h=356" alt="" width="535" height="356" /></p>
<p>Drum Circle and children&#8217;s band playing together.</p>
<p><img title="100_0782" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/100_0782.jpg?w=538&#038;h=403" alt="" width="538" height="403" /></p>
<p>The Either Or store exhibits their items for sale.</p>
<p>______________________________________________</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Poetry Reading, Jogger&#8217;s Park, Viman Nagar, 27th Sep</strong></p>
<p>Poets shared their own poems in Hindi, Marathi and English. An official dictat by Shivaji Maharaj on how to treat trees.</p>
<p><img title="IMG_6200" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6200.jpg?w=542&#038;h=361" alt="" width="542" height="361" /></p>
<p>______________________________________________</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Little Flower Open School and Kindergarten, Viman Nagar, 1st Oct</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-491" title="IMG_6242" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6242.jpg?w=484&#038;h=322" alt="" width="484" height="322" /></p>
<p>Niranjan and the children pool information about trees.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-489" title="IMG_6235" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6235.jpg?w=484&#038;h=322" alt="" width="484" height="322" /></p>
<p>Children hugging the tree!</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-medium wp-image-490" title="IMG_6239" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/img_6239.jpg?w=483&#038;h=322" alt="" width="483" height="322" /></p>
<p>Children sang and spoke to trees and listened.  Some heard vibrations.</p>
<p>______________________________________________</p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong>Jogger&#8217;s Park, Viman Nagar, 3rd Oct<br />
</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-395" title="100_0797" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/100_0797.jpg?w=487&#038;h=365" alt="" width="487" height="365" /></p>
<p>Exhibition and Live Painting for all!</p>
<p><img title="100_0816" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/100_0816.jpg?w=563&#038;h=422" alt="" width="563" height="422" /></p>
<p>&#8230;everyone joining in the painting fun!</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-397" title="100_0821" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/100_0821.jpg?w=570&#038;h=427" alt="" width="570" height="427" /></p>
<p>Exhibition of paintings by  students of Asher&#8217;s Art Classes in Viman Nagar.</p>
<p><img class="alignnone size-large wp-image-398" title="100_0860" src="http://hrutcollage.files.wordpress.com/2010/10/100_0860.jpg?w=548&#038;h=411" alt="" width="548" height="411" /></p>
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<p>The artwork was set up all over the park.</p>
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		<title>News Articles about Homeschooling</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[News Articles on Homeschooling, Unschooling, Alternative Education with Urmila Samson. Times of India  &#8221;When Staying At Home Does Not Mean Skipping Education&#8221;  http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&#38;Source=Page&#38;Skin=TOINEW&#38;BaseHref=TOIPU%2F2010%2F09%2F08&#38;ViewMode=GIF&#38;GZ=T&#38;PageLabel=2&#38;EntityId=Ar00200&#38;AppName=1 India Today  &#8221;The De-School Brigade&#8221;  http://indiatoday.intoday.in/site/Story/97365/The+De-school+brigade.html?page=0 Indian Express  &#8221;The road not taken: parents school wards at home&#8221;  http://www.indianexpress.com/news/the-road-not-taken-parents-school-wards-at-home/583832/0 The Punekar &#8221; &#8216;Unschooled&#8217; kid completes diploma in television and video production&#8221;  http://punekar.in/site/2009/08/27/unschooled-kid-completes-diploma-in-television-and-video-production/ The [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=384&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<li>Times of India  &#8221;When Staying At Home Does Not Mean Skipping Education&#8221;  <a href="http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&amp;Source=Page&amp;Skin=TOINEW&amp;BaseHref=TOIPU%2F2010%2F09%2F08&amp;ViewMode=GIF&amp;GZ=T&amp;PageLabel=2&amp;EntityId=Ar00200&amp;AppName=1">http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&amp;Source=Page&amp;Skin=TOINEW&amp;BaseHref=TOIPU%2F2010%2F09%2F08&amp;ViewMode=GIF&amp;GZ=T&amp;PageLabel=2&amp;EntityId=Ar00200&amp;AppName=1</a></li>
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<li>India Today  &#8221;The De-School Brigade&#8221;  <a href="http://indiatoday.intoday.in/site/Story/97365/The+De-school+brigade.html?page=0">http://indiatoday.intoday.in/site/Story/97365/The+De-school+brigade.html?page=0</a></li>
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<li>Indian Express  &#8221;The road not taken: parents school wards at home&#8221;  <a href="http://www.indianexpress.com/news/the-road-not-taken-parents-school-wards-at-home/583832/0">http://www.indianexpress.com/news/the-road-not-taken-parents-school-wards-at-home/583832/0</a></li>
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<li>The Punekar &#8221; &#8216;Unschooled&#8217; kid completes diploma in television and video production&#8221;  <a href="http://punekar.in/site/2009/08/27/unschooled-kid-completes-diploma-in-television-and-video-production/">http://punekar.in/site/2009/08/27/unschooled-kid-completes-diploma-in-television-and-video-production/</a></li>
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<li>The Indian Express &#8221;Woman Power&#8221;  <a href="http://www.expressindia.com/ie/daily/19990615/ile15149p.html">http://www.expressindia.com/ie/daily/19990615/ile15149p.html</a></li>
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<li>Unity from the Gnostic Center  &#8221;A Personal Account&#8221;  <a href="http://www.gnosticcentre.com/link_files/journal_unity.pdf">http://www.gnosticcentre.com/link_files/journal_unity.pdf</a></li>
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<li>InToday &#8221;No Kidding We Don&#8217;t Go to School&#8221;  <a href="http://www.intoday.in/content_mail.php?option=com_content&amp;name=print&amp;id=27454">http://www.intoday.in/content_mail.php?option=com_content&amp;name=print&amp;id=27454</a></li>
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<li>D.N.A (Daily News &amp; Analysis) &#8221;Following A Different School of Thought&#8221;  <a href="http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_8111/is_20091222/ai_n50994747/">http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_8111/is_20091222/ai_n50994747/</a></li>
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<li>Wikipedia &#8221;Homeschooling and Alternative Education in India&#8221;  <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homeschooling_and_Alternative_Education_in_India">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homeschooling_and_Alternative_Education_in_India</a></li>
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		<title>Buddhan Theatre</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 13:38:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;The price of being different.&#8221; I have added this to the blog with the tag &#8216;the price of being different&#8217; to draw attention to the fact that India is a country with the most diversity on various levels.  We have been known to be naturally tolerant to a fault.  It is tragic, therefore, when we [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=324&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;The price of being different.&#8221;</p>
<p>I have added this to the blog with the tag &#8216;the price of being different&#8217; to draw attention to the fact that India is a country with the most diversity on various levels.  We have been known to be naturally tolerant to a fault.  It is tragic, therefore, when we try to standardize, homogenize and try to become part of the global monoculture.  The plays and situation described under is a painful awakening to the fact of how we judge people and their ways of being by limited standards.</p>
<p><strong>*Introduction of Buddhan Theatre*</strong></p>
<p>Budhan Theatre is a theatre troupe of the Chhara community in  Ahmedabad,<br />
India. The Chharas were one of the 192 Denotified and Nomadic  Tribes (DNTs)<br />
branded as “Born Criminals” under British rule. Although that label  was<br />
removed five years after India’s independence (when they were  “denotified”<br />
in 1952), the stigma remains. The Chharas are still suspects in the  eyes of<br />
the law, and are treated as hardened criminals by the Police. DNT<br />
communities throughout India are frequent victims of police  harassment and<br />
vigilante mobs, and the Chharas face similar problems. Chharanagar,  the<br />
community Budhan Theatre calls home, is shunned by mainstream  society in<br />
Ahmedabad and its residents are refused jobs, bank loans and equal<br />
protection before the law.</p>
<p>Through their plays, Budhan Theatre is working to erase the  criminal stigma<br />
attached to their community. “Chharas are ‘Born Actors’ not ‘Born  Criminals’<br />
they declare. Through their plays, Budhan Theatre fosters dialogue  between a<br />
stigmatized community and rest of the world. They aim to sensitize  society<br />
to the issues and legal injustice which plague their community.  Budhan<br />
Theatre also works to promote their community development. Together  with<br />
their parent organization, the Bhasha Research and Publication  Centre,<br />
Budhan Theatre is involved in sponsoring educational scholarships  for girls<br />
and runs a community library and informal school.</p>
<p>The name ”Budhan” was chosen in honor of the work done by the<br />
writer-activist Mahasweta Devi on behalf of India’s DNTs, and it  was Smt.<br />
Mahasweta Devi and Dr. Ganesh Devi who founded the Chharanagar  library. In<br />
addition to acting and staging plays, Budhan Theatre members have  been<br />
making award winning films and documenting the history, culture,  and social<br />
issues of other DNT communities.</p>
<p>The activities of Budhan Theatre not only provide an alternative  livelihood<br />
for Chhara youth, but through their plays, films, and outreach  activities<br />
they seek to be a voice for all of India’s DNTs. When they were  branded as<br />
“Born Criminals” by the British, DNTs had their identity taken from  them and<br />
replaced with the stigma of criminality. So many years after  Independence,<br />
DNTs remain ostracized by mainstream society, and without any  constitutional<br />
protection for their wellbeing. Budhan Theatre fights for social justice and<br />
human dignity on behalf of all DNT communities.</p>
<p>Synopsis of play Budhan</p>
<p>Budhan, 45 Minutes play by Budhan Theatre is about the real cases<br />
of atrocities by police and people on Denotifid Tribes in various  part of<br />
India. The play begins with Budhan Sabar case who died due to  police<br />
atrocity in Purulia District. This case follows another atrocity  case of<br />
Deepak Pawar of Solapur, Maharashtra. The play speaks about that  how legal<br />
system look at Denotified Tribal people as Criminals, torture them  and kill<br />
them.</p>
<p>The play discusses about the present plight of Denotified Tribal in  India<br />
and end with question. A question from Nomadic and Denotified  Tribes of<br />
India for constitutional guarantee to live with Dignity.</p>
<p>Budhan Theatre performed Budhan play more then 300 times across the  country.<br />
First time we are going to perform Budhan on the land of Budhan  Sabar.</p>
<p>SYNOPSIS OF CHARANDAS CHOR BY BUDHAN THEATRE&#8217;S CHILDREN.</p>
<p>The play charts the tumultuous life of a petty thief, Charandas  (Lalu Ram).<br />
Curiously he is a man of principles – an honest thief with a strong  sense of<br />
integrity and professional efficiency. He makes four vows to his  Guru that<br />
he would never eat in a gold plate, never lead a procession that is  in his<br />
honour, never become a king and never marry a princess, thinking  all of them<br />
are far out possibilities for him. Later, his guru adds a fifth one  &#8211; never<br />
to tell a lie and sets him of on his life&#8217;s journey which leads him  to a<br />
kingdom, where the turn of events make him famous, and eventually  he is<br />
offered the seat of political power which he has to refuse. Later,  the local<br />
princess gets enchanted by him, and proposes to marry him. This is when his<br />
refusal costs him his life. As he is put to death, he illustrates  the<br />
inherent paradox in human existence, where truthful existence  becomes<br />
impossibility, for the truthful and the accidentally truthful,  alike.<br />
The play is performed by the teenager members of Budhan Theatre  which is a<br />
community theatre of Chhara tribe in Ahmedabad. Chhara community is<br />
stigmatized as Criminal Tribe and youngsters and teenagers are  trying to<br />
remove historical stigma through Theatre art by creating awareness  and<br />
appeal to let them live with human dignity. The plays is written by  Habib<br />
Tanveer and Directed by Atish Chhara, a sr. member of Budhan  Theatre.</p>
<p>Accidental Death of an Anarchist by Sr. Members of Budhan Theatre</p>
<p>Dario Fo&#8217;s *Accidental Death of an Anarchist* (1970) responds to  events<br />
unfolding in Italy in the late 1960s and early 1970s. The play is  translated<br />
into Hindi by Amitabh Shrivastav and Budhan Theater adopted it in a  recent<br />
Bomb Blast issue and aftermath arrests&#8217; context in Ahmedabad city.</p>
<p>*Accidental Death of an Anarchist* is mainly about police  corruption,<br />
underscored by the play&#8217;s focus on impersonation, infiltration, and<br />
double-talk. A fast-talking major character, the Maniac,  infiltrates a<br />
police headquarters. Posing as an investigating judge, he tricks  the<br />
policemen into contradicting themselves and admitting that they are<br />
part of a cover-up involving the death of an anarchist. The  Maniac&#8217;s<br />
flip-flop of point of view and statement achieves much the same  effect as<br />
his impersonations do. His confusing speechifying leads to the  police<br />
contradicting themselves, so that the Maniac, in all of his  deceptions and<br />
distortions, is a precise reflection of what the play is designed  to expose.</p>
<p>*Accidental Death of an Anarchist* is one of Fo&#8217;s most popular  plays both<br />
within and outside Italy. It has played around the world over the  years to</p>
<p>millions of people, a popular choice of directors who want to point  to corruption in their midst.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.budhantheatre.org/" target="_blank">www.budhantheatre.org</a><br />
<a href="http://www.bhasharesearch.org.in/" target="_blank">www.bhasharesearch.org.in</a><br />
<a href="http://vimukta.org/" target="_blank">http://vimukta.org/</a></p>
<p>Kiran Moghe<br />
President AIDWA Maharashtra</p>
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		<title>Farmer’s Market, Pune</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[On Tuesday, 27th April, 2010, an informal group of people with a common interest in exploring possibilities for the setting up of Organic Farmer’s Markets in the city, met up at the FTII Organic Mess. Prior to this meeting, there was another such meeting with the farmers themselves. The 27th April meeting had no preset [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=317&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-size:small;">On </span><span style="font-size:small;">Tuesday, 27</span><sup><span style="font-size:xx-small;">th</span></sup><span style="font-size:small;"> April, 2010</span><span style="font-size:small;">, an i</span><span style="font-size:small;">nformal group of people with a </span><span style="font-size:small;">common interest</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in exploring possibilities for the setting up of Organic Farmer’s M</span><span style="font-size:small;">ark</span><span style="font-size:small;">ets in the city, met up at the </span><span style="font-size:small;">FTII Organic Mess. </span><span style="font-size:small;">Prior to this meeting, there was another such meeting with the farmers themselves.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">The 27</span><sup><span style="font-size:xx-small;">th</span></sup><span style="font-size:small;"> April</span><span style="font-size:small;"> meeting had no preset agenda and was more in the nature of trying to understand what people’s dreams and visions were for such a market place. The participants encouraged each other to share their thoughts unrestricted by the practical consider</span><span style="font-size:small;">ations for the time being</span><span style="font-size:small;">. There were various shades and nuances</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to the visions  for the Farmer’s M</span><span style="font-size:small;">arket that the participants articulated</span><span style="font-size:small;">,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> but the common vision that emerged was that such spaces were needed not only as places for buying and selling organic food but as places central to our very well being, the well being of the land, our farmers and society at large. </span><span style="font-size:small;">It is not about farmers coming to sell, but about us participating in the process.  It is</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to be a place where people would have the choice to buy and sell organic food  and do much more; it would be a conscious and mindful attempt to create spaces where people could bond, connect and reclaim a sense of community, belonging and respect for the land, food, food growers  and ultimately our own lives. People at the meeting believed that food was central to our well being and that </span><em><span style="font-size:small;">a society can be happy only when its food growers are happy.</span></em></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Its also important to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> point out that this visioning </span><span style="font-size:small;">and sharing of concerns is an ongoing process and is by no means complete, and it is hoped that those interested in this concept, will add to this and work towards making it a reality in their own areas and loc</span><span style="font-size:small;">alities, some taking the lead and others in</span><span style="font-size:small;"> a supporting role.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Some of the points that came up were: </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">These will be spaces where/which</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">1.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Organic farmers from the locality and nearby areas can sell their produce at reasonable rates.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">2.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">People who value organically grown food can buy the same at reasonable rates.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">3.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">P</span><span style="font-size:small;">eople from an area can meet up and form a sense of community and belonging with each other and with the growers of their food.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">4.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">T</span><span style="font-size:small;">here will be discussions/ performances/activities that lead to more awareness about the various  aspects of organic food. This will include concerns about land, water, fertil</span><span style="font-size:small;">izers, herbicides, pesticides, </span><span style="font-size:small;">organic resources, farmers and their lives, the effects of our consumption patterns on our lives and society at large.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">5.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">O</span><span style="font-size:small;">rganic food growers, their knowledge, culture and lifestyles could be understood, appreciated and honoured.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">6.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">R</span><span style="font-size:small;">ural and urban barriers can be broken and mutual respect and understanding developed.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">7.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">F</span><span style="font-size:small;">ree sharing of various material and services will be encouraged.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">8.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">P</span><span style="font-size:small;">eople will be encouraged to manifest other dreams and visions in the development of self and society.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">9.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">T</span><span style="font-size:small;">he public could re</span><span style="font-size:small;">claim pub</span><span style="font-size:small;">lic spaces to benefit all</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">One of </span><span style="font-size:small;">the things that </span><span style="font-size:small;">were</span><span style="font-size:small;"> also </span><span style="font-size:small;">stated</span><span style="font-size:small;"> was that this was not going to be another small group working hard and taking responsibility for such markets in different parts of the city.  Every market w</span><span style="font-size:small;">ould come into existence in accordance with the amount of</span><span style="font-size:small;"> interested</span><span style="font-size:small;"> people from t</span><span style="font-size:small;">he locality pooling energy and resources towards making the market happen</span><span style="font-size:small;">. </span><span style="font-size:small;">In other words, there is no ‘we’ who are setting up a market for </span><span style="font-size:small;">‘them’ or ‘you’.  It is </span><em><span style="font-size:small;">we</span></em><span style="font-size:small;"> getting together to create </span><span style="font-size:small;">an Organic Farmer’s Market for </span><em><span style="font-size:small;">ourselve</span></em><em><span style="font-size:small;">s</span></em><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Pune Farmer’s Market 17</span></strong><strong><sup><span style="font-size:xx-small;">th</span></sup></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;"> May, at Gram Mangal</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;">, Kothrud</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">There have been two meetings prior to this.  At this meeting there were two main foci:</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">1.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Suggest Principles on which the Farmer’s Market would be based.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">2.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Set up core groups to work on the following:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">a.)</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Create a loose but adequate structure.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">b.)</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Find an appropriate Space (or spaces) for the Market.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Principles:</span></strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">We all just threw out ideas from the top of our heads, so they cannot all be considered ‘principles’.  I am setting them down more or less as I understood them.  Please excuse me if I got you </span><span style="font-size:small;">wrong</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and e mail me to make the relevant changes.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Avoid eco unfriendly materials.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Organize in a way to ensure that it stays sustainable for me and the farmer.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">No bargaining.  Fixed Rate. (Special bargaining booth for tradition’s sake!)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Fair prices for both sides.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Pleasant layout with sufficient space.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Happy People</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Things to engage diverse populations.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Joyful place.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Redefine buyer-seller relationship. Bridge between farmers and consumers. Personalize the sales process.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">No middle man.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Stall for homegrown food/produce/crafts.  Have to be organic/recycled.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Transparency</span><span style="font-size:small;"> &#8211; honest about what is not 100% organic.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Moving towards 100% organic.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Authentic information stall.  Place for pamphlets.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Stall dedicated to creating awareness.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">New activities of interest each week.  Can be repeated after some time.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Produce should be peer certified.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">-</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Introduce concepts such as gift economy, pay as you wish, barter.  Open up to diversity of transaction mechanisms.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">It was suggested that meetings should not just be discussions, but also:</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">1.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Bring produce and start the market!  Gita tai already took the lead and brought along delicious Alphonso mangoes to share with us all as well as for sale.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">2.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">A meeting should not just be cerebral</span><span style="font-size:small;"> ‘all talk’.  There should be physical movement, an element of lightness, fun and playfulness.  The power of silence should never be underestimated.</span></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Our trip to Auroville was full of fun, adventure and learning.  There were earth paths that I enjoyed bicycling along, just taking in the sights, sounds and smells.  Each community is so unique and has its own beauty.  From a three family community called Evergreen where my friend lives with her family in the open [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=273&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Our trip to Auroville was full of fun, adventure and learning.   There were earth paths that I enjoyed bicycling along, just taking in  the sights, sounds and smells.  Each community is so unique and has its  own beauty.  From a three family community called Evergreen where my  friend lives with her family in the open forest house, to the one  hundred strong Sadhana Forest Community who are reforesting large areas  of otherwise barren land.  The arts and crafts seem more beautiful as  there is a conscious dedication of one&#8217;s work to the Divine.  Around each  corner one encounters interesting architecture of such variety.  It is  a multicultural society with almost every country and Indian state  represented there.  It is not uncommon to hear children of different skin  colours having a lively conversation in Tamil or French, etc.  The food and  other products are varied, exotic and representative of national and  international tastes.<img src="///Users/sahya/Pictures/Kodak%20Pictures/03-27-2010/100_0177.JPG" alt="" /><img src="///Users/sahya/Desktop/auro%20lomo%20pics/10910409%20a/F1090025.JPG" alt="" /></div>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>Sadhana Forest</em></p>
<div>We stayed at New Creation Guest House (with  kitchenette &#8211; very important for our differing food preferences), which  is a community full of schools for local village children as well as  Aurovillian children.</div>
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<div style="text-align:center;"><em> Buddha Garden</em></div>
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<div>Buddha Garden is an organic farm which opens once a week  for people to come in and learn about what they do and how they do it.</div>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The Matrimandir</em></p>
<div>The  Matrimandir dedicated to The Mother, of French descent who joined Sri  Aurobindo in his spiritual work in Pondicherry where they co &#8211; founded  the Sri Aurobindo Ashram.  Auroville was created by The Mother, and is  meant to be a truly conscious international community.</div>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em>The Dune Hotel, just outside Auroville<br />
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<div>The split bamboo and thatch huts are guest rooms at The  Dunes (a little away from Auroville) where I spent two nights with the  boys in order to de-tox from city life.  The de-tox was successful, and  they were able to enjoy the more basic amenities at Auroville after  that!  The Dunes has an organic farm with ducks, turkeys, hens, birds,  cows, goats, and the most friendly dogs I have ever met.  We made pots  with an old potter, bicycled and swam.  The wide menu covered food that  even my boys eat!</div>
<div>There was lots more, like the strange and wonderful  musical instruments workshop, The White Peacock pottery space where  young and old meet on Sundays to make anything their hearts desire in  clay, Certitude community which has a football field, tennis and  badminton courts, people who come in from around the globe to run  workshops of all kinds.  The weather is mellowed by the green cover of  hundreds of trees that I heard were planted by the earliest  Aurovillians.  If you want to feel the difference that trees make to an  otherwise harsh climate, visit Auroville!</div>
<div>There is no way to completely describe Auroville.  Each  time we go there we have new experiences.  At least one visit in this  life time is highly recommended.</div>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Their site <a href="http://www.auroville.org" target="_blank"><cite>www.<strong>auroville</strong>.org</cite></a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em></em>English Literacy for the Hearing Impaired by EKansh.  Sign language classes also are available for everyone of all ages.</p>
<p>Students drawing after their class.</p>
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		<title>Lomography Photo Gallery</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2010 15:49:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pics taken by the Lomography-Photography workshop participants, Kalyani Nagar. JANUARY &#8211; FEBRUARY: MARCH: Tagged: lomography, photography, workshops<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=244&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pics taken by the Lomography-Photography workshop participants, Kalyani Nagar.</p>
<p>JANUARY &#8211; FEBRUARY:<em><br />
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<p>MARCH:</p>
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		<title>Acting Workshop</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Mar 2010 12:44:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Acting Workshop led by Corinna Lenneis, at Kalyani Nagar: Corinna Lenneis, who is originally from Vienna, Austria, completed her Bachelors of  Arts Degree at the renowned Guildford School of Acting, in short GSA, in England, Europe in 2005. Since, before and during her education she has worked as an actress, director, acting teacher and writer [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=211&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Acting Workshop led by Corinna Lenneis, at Kalyani Nagar:</p>
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<p><span style="font-family:'times new roman';"><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Corinna Lenneis,</span></strong></span><span style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span style="font-size:small;"> who is originally from Vienna, Austria, completed her Bachelors of  Arts Degree at the renowned Guildford School of Acting, in short GSA, in England, Europe in 2005. Since, before and during her education she has worked as an actress, director, acting teacher and writer in England, Germany and Austria. Performances include “Showcase” at Criterion Theater, Piccadilly Circus, London, the performance of her own play “Survivors” at the Bellairs playhouse, Guildford and “Vernisage” which got performed both in Germany and Austria.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span style="font-size:small;">In 2007 and 2009 she led a variety of acting workshops for both amateurs and professionals at the WUK in Vienna with great success.</span></span></p>
<p><span style="font-family:'times new roman';"><span style="font-size:small;">In 2008 and large parts of 2009/10 she’s taken time out to travel around the world, work on her first novel and to teach acting internationally.</span></span></p>
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		<title>Papers Presented by Urmila</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 09:04:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Three papers presented by Urmila Samson: 1. Towards a New Education (2004) 2. Towards a New Education The Journey Continues (2007) 3. Love is Past, Present and Future (2009) &#160; Towards a New Education This paper  was presented at the Indian Psychology Yoga and Consciousness conference Pondicherry, in 2004. Much of my thinking has changed [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=hrutcollage.wordpress.com&amp;blog=11896105&amp;post=199&amp;subd=hrutcollage&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p style="text-align:left;">Three papers presented by Urmila Samson:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">1. Towards a New Education (2004)</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">2. Towards a New Education The Journey Continues (2007)</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">3. Love is Past, Present and Future (2009)</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">&nbsp;</p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Towards a New Education</span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><em> </em>This paper  was presented at the <a href="http://ipi.org.in/texts/ipyc/ipyc-full/usamson.html">Indian Psychology Yoga and Consciousness conference</a> Pondicherry, in 2004.</p>
<p style="text-align:center;">Much of my thinking has changed since then, but this describes the beginning of my journey.<em><br />
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<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Introduction</span></strong></p>
<p>During my school days I realized that there was more to education than what could be possible within the confines of one institution, and interaction with the same children and teachers throughout one’s childhood.  It is our childhood experiences outside of academics that contribute to what I would call <em>intangible learning</em>; the part of education that cannot be measured and evaluated.  It makes up a greater part of our learning, and today’s system is leaving less and less time and space for it.  In this paper I have put forward some ideas as to how we can at least begin to develop intangible learning. Soon after my standard ten board examinations I came across many books on education and while still in my teens I decided to have many children, (a football team, actually), and never send them to school!  During the following years I found more and more books that spoke of changing times, the increasing gap between the content of syllabi and of what education should now consist.  By my mid-twenties I was determined to effect a change in the system.  I worked in seven schools over a period of eleven years.  It is then that I realized that reforms from within the school structure were constrained by the outdated nature of the structure itself, the framework and systems; especially the fact of syllabi that are made by outsiders far removed from the individuals, and the board exam as the final aim.  I am not trying to say that we have to do away with schools altogether, although I have called my concept No School.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Homeschool, Unschool, No School.</span></strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong></p>
<p>When I was asked to present a paper on my homeschooling experiences, I was not happy, as I do not advocate homeschooling.  Besides, our home education cannot be termed as homeschooling.  Homeschooling means that parents use the prescribed syllabus, but go about it more creatively.  Homeschooling in various countries has been formalized.  Parents have to get accreditation, worksheets and tests are mailed and sent back for evaluation.  Some schools allow homeschoolers to join in their extra curricular activities and have use of laboratory and library facilities.</p>
<p>A few years ago I found a term on the net ‘unschooling’ which is closer to what we are doing.  The unschooling families seem also to have been influenced by John Holt.  Unschoolers do not necessarily follow a timetable, a syllabus or have parents who are teachers.  Parents go about their business and children learn from their own play as well as learn about the adult world by going about with their parents.  Parents are alert to their children’s needs, and make resources available, including the children in the process.  Process is ever important, and the goal is never a test or a board exam.  In some countries there are huge support networks and unschooling families meet, picnic, exchange ideas and put up helpful websites.  Rather than write tomes on education, they exchange problems, solutions and ideas from their experiences.  Towards the end of his days John Holt lost faith in the fact of his “Learning in Freedom” ever coming to be, as the vested interests and convenience of formal schooling seemed to override his concept.  However, today there are millions of homeschoolers the world over, thousands of unschooling families as well, and their numbers are on the increase.</p>
<p>I do not advocate home education as a universal solution, and neither do many of the families who are into it.  It assumes various conditions that are not universally available, so I suggest instead, that we start by changing thinking and attitudes towards education.  Then only can my suggestions become practical.  Within the present framework they will seem impossible.  I am very grateful to Neeltje and Matthijs for giving me this opportunity to share my ideas Towards a New Education backed by my home education experiences.</p>
<p><strong>Some assumptions:</strong></p>
<p>1. Individual effort is valuable.</p>
<p>2. Subjective experience is valid.  Different views and ways can co-exist.</p>
<p>3. Even impractical ideas should be expressed, for the dream creates the reality.</p>
<p><strong>Not rigid; subjective; purpose is of opening up more ways:</strong></p>
<p>It takes 18 years for a human child to reach maturity, much longer than any other living creature.  We must be mindful of the different educational requirements of each stage.  I have broken these up into age appropriate categories that are by no means rigid. These are borne of my own experiences.  I am not trying to validate my way as the only way. I also may be mistaken as to cause and effect.  I am sharing this in the hope of opening up more ways of looking at education. <em>The No School concept I propose is myriad.</em></p>
<p>I did not have as many children as I had planned, (for practical reasons)!  Though three, in India, is considered two too many!  But true to plan, I have not sent them to school at all.  My eldest daughter Sahya is 12 years old, and I have two sons aged 7, Rayn, and 4, Niom.  Their names do not belong to any religion.  They come from the musical notes of a scale – Sa, Re and Ni.</p>
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<p><strong>Need to re-iterate universal wisdom regarding childcare:</strong></p>
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<p>Though everyone seems to know what children need, there is much missing in our country specific to this age group.  I am only highlighting what I feel requires constant re-iteration, and ideas on how it can be brought about.  In itself nothing is new, so I will not go into detail.  What <em>is </em>new, however, is that I am suggesting that paediatricians, gynaecologists, NGOs, teachers, parents and government agencies take up the issues, that follow below, to formally remind each other and everyone else about its importance.</p>
<p><strong>Nurturing:</strong></p>
<p>This is the most urgent need of children and all living things.  Love is a much bandied about term, so I am using a word that does not cause confusion.  If parents have not received love, from where will they give it?  In order to begin somewhere, I suggest that just as the syllabus is prescribed, and adhered to and monitored, so some basic form of nurturing should be discussed with parents, teachers and caregivers. Psychologists can design excercises and advertisement people can push the concept with the vigour that they push products.  It should be the <em>main prescribed item</em> in the syllabus for 0-6 year olds.  Nurturing 0-6s should become a norm, a well-established fact of contemporary life.</p>
<p>Many parents/teachers/caregivers nurture children intuitively, many feel they are perfectly right in hitting, intimidating or verbally putting down children and many parents mistake pampering for nurturing.  In ancient India, the child from 0-7 was   treated as a King!  The next stage he is a student, then a householder and finally a Sanyasi.  It is difficult for all parents/teachers/caregivers to nurture.  I feel that <em>the concept </em>of the importance of nurturing cannot be emphasized enough<em>. </em>Then if for whatever reasons some are unable to do so themselves, they can see that the child is in a place where nurturing is valued.</p>
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<p><strong>Support:</strong></p>
<p>Due to the joint family system, support groups for young parents do not exist in our country.  (Or rather are so few, that they are not worth the mention in this discussion.) <em>The support that is needed is not the kind where ‘experts’ teach parents, but where parents come together and share their experiences</em> <em>and learn from each other</em>.  The more number of support groups that exist, the more choices parents will have in case the one they first join does not fit in with what they feel is right.</p>
<p>Very importantly, <em>parents have to be supported in using their intuition,</em> rather than their rational minds or pressure from those around them. In my experience, parents long to love their children, but are afraid to spoil them.  They need confidence in the knowledge that nurturing breeds inner toughness, which is inviolable.</p>
<p>Extended families, friends, neighbours need to be sensitive to the unique challenges faced by families of under 6s.  These tend to exert unconscious pressures that parents then unconsciously transfer to the children.  Without us being conscious of it, the little and big seemingly inconsequential irritations of daily routine: work, school, commuting, social and religious obligations, expectations of dress and behaviour, all pile up causing tremendous stress on a daily, hourly basis.  We need to therefore, constantly remind ourselves of the need to de-stress, to return to a state of awareness, and to educate the people around us of the chain reaction consequences of their demands/expectations.  Adults and children in urban situations are busier than earlier times, and therefore unable to take time out to review their situation, actions and responses.   There are so many more choices, things to do, distractions and insidious influences.  The media bombarding us and our children with what we should look like, do and even who we should be.</p>
<p><strong>Health and hygiene:</strong></p>
<p>We tend to separate physical health and treat it as a completely isolated aspect of life.  When my first child fell ill, I used to get terrified every time she had the slightest cold or tummy upset.  When my second baby was born, the fact of handling a child and a baby made me even more worrisome and tense about hygiene and illnesses.  There were months on end when we were ill all together or in never ending rounds.  We went from homeopaths, to allopathic doctors, to specialists, all the time working on myself, trying to calm myself down and reach a state of awareness and clarity as to what I was doing that was coming in the way of the healing process.  I realized that I had relapsed in to the super mom syndrome, wanting to do a perfect job of motherhood, not being humble enough to ask for help and support, and wanting to prove more than ever that I know everything about rearing perfect children!  During the long and painful process of relaxing and letting go, I came to understand that stress over health and hygiene <em>causes </em>sickness.  Once I relaxed and accepted support from those around, healing took place on a deeper more permanent level.  Once we were healed, we had found the secret of maintaining health and rarely visited a doctor again.</p>
<p>It is then that I realized that diet and hygiene are lesser factors in determining health. (We see human beings live through the filthiest conditions and very poor diets in our country itself.)  Stress levels and a supportive, nurturing atmosphere are more important factors determining health.</p>
<p><strong>Death:</strong></p>
<p>Our attitude towards death affects the way we live our lives.  Therefore it is important that children have as natural an experience as possible.  Sahya and I visited my mother’s parents once in a while, as they lived in Mumbai.  My grandfather passed away at the age of 91, when Sahya was three years old.  Sahya had seen her great grandfather’s body getting older.  When he died, I explained that when the body gets old, slowly the organs and limbs and all the parts get weaker and the person inside gets tired of trying to do things and move around with such a body.  Also the person feels that he has lived in this body on this earth for a long long time and done everything that he wanted to do, and now he has finished.  So when the time is right, the person leaves the tired, old, useless body on the earth.  We cry and feel sad because we miss talking to him and hugging him.  The part of the person that we could talk to and hug was the body.  The part that does not die is the soul.</p>
<p><strong>God and Nature:</strong></p>
<p>One week both my sons asked two different questions and the answer was so connected.  These truths are usually expressed in beautiful language that is hard for children to grasp.  I have written a simple explanation so that children may understand the greatness that is Nature and God.  Usually children grow up admiring science and other man made wonders throughout childhood, while having only hazy snatches of what True Greatness is.</p>
<p>Rayn: “What is nature?”</p>
<p>Mama: “Everything that is not manmade.  Buildings, dams, roads, electric lights are manmade.</p>
<p>Rayn:  And leaves, trees, mountains, planets and sunlight are part of nature.</p>
<p>Mama:  Yes.  And man can never make Nature.</p>
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<p>Niom: “What is god?”</p>
<p>Mama: “The creator or maker of all things like flowers and trees and us and animals and insects and the moon and Venus…. All the things that people can’t make.</p>
<p>“Why can’t we see god?”   And I have answered all three when this question has come up:  “Do you feel angry or sad or happy?  Can we see it?  Only if you show it on your face, or by doing something.  So we see god in the things that god created and made.  Do you have thoughts?  If you do something with your thought, then I can see what you have done.  If the thought remains inside you then no one knows about that thought, but that does not mean that it isn’t there all the same!”</p>
<p><strong>Religion:</strong></p>
<p>“What is religion?”</p>
<p>“Ever since human beings have been on earth, they have had a very strong feeling that there is something greater and stronger and more powerful than them.  That some creative force has made all the beautiful things we find in nature.  They made stories and explanations about it and ways of praying for what they want, and then when they got what they wanted very badly, they made special prayers of thanks.  Different people made different stories and passed them down to their children and so on.  The stories, prayers and ways of praying over many years became fixed in the form of a religion with a name for each religion, names for the gods and goddesses, and names for the prayers and customs and places of worship.</p>
<p>Later, there were spiritually advanced people who realized that times have changed, and people sticking to a religion that was made hundreds of years ago were losing the proper meaning. So they taught people different ideas of god and different ways of understanding life and god.  Over the years, people who liked their way became followers, and made <em>their</em> teachings into a religion with a new name. And again over hundreds of years people have lost the meaning of life and god, and the religion has got fixed and people have forgotten its meaning!</p>
<p><strong>Educational infrastructure for under sixes:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>A holistic experience:</strong></p>
<p>Parents need a break from their children, but parents also need to be more involved with their children.  This is not a contradiction.  I found that when parents get a break, they come back with renewed enthusiasm and creativity and enjoy being with their children more.  Also, I have noticed that one person playing with a child tires more quickly than if two adults are playing with them.  Similarly, groups of adults and children together have a great time if the adults consciously tune in to the children.  It is enriching, therapeutic and educational for both the adults and the children.   Actually, it is more than that. It is quite a holistic (mind, body, spirit) experience.</p>
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<p><strong>Neighbourhood </strong><strong>Safe Place</strong><strong>:</strong></p>
<p>Families can and do organize group activities on their own, but here I will describe a way that families can come together and share their educational capabilities without energy loss and pollution due to commuting.</p>
<p>The more, the merrier.  Every urban and rural neighbourhood should have a Neighbourhood Safe Place that they can be proud of and that everyone feels comfortable to visit.  It should be more open and less built up.</p>
<p>The open spaces can be used for playing in mud, planting and harvesting <em>anything,</em> (order in chaos!), simple swinging and sliding systems.  Children will swing from anything – tires hung from trees, they will slide down muddy or grassy slopes…expensive equipment is always a maintenance headache.</p>
<p>The inside rooms can have simple percussion instruments that the 4-6s can make themselves, art, dance, dressing up etc.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Resources: </span>Almost all resources can come from the neighbourhood.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Rescource people:</span> They can be the young, old and physically challenged people from the neighbourhood.  Psychology students, teacher trainees, social workers, parents with some free time and energy, grandparents…Their main work is to be alert and really <em>be all there</em>.  Tune in to what is happening, be on hand to sort problems, read storybooks, help children at the computers, comfort the hurt, pull out and put away any special resource materials if and when required.  The most important thing is LET THE CHILDREN BE IN CHARGE of their own activities.  Do not think we know better.  From 0-6, THEY actually DO know better!  Before they are brainwashed, which is bound to happen after this stage.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Parents:</span> must be encouraged to come in and join in the fun.  They may also share their particular skill – story telling, pot making, a tribal dance, singing, finger shadows.  Modern education belittles ancient wisdom and culture.  It is no good going into tribal areas to teach literacy and urban syllabi, without learning herbal medicine or how to read the weather, seasons and time without gadgets and science.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Adult-child ratio</span><strong>: </strong>Just as the single parent to child ratio is impractical, so is the one teacher to 60, 20, and even 5 students is absurd.  Child adult ratios have to be <em>rotated</em> on an almost daily basis.  With children in charge and parents and others coming in and out of the NSP, children can choose whom they need to contact for what.  They have larger, wider options for interaction and various combinations available to them.</p>
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<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Temper tantrums, emotional outbursts, embarrassment in public</span>:</p>
<p>Making a mess that someone else has to pick up, breaking things, throwing things, hitting and pulling hair, refusing to share, fighting with other children and a host of other ‘negative’ behaviours are just the other side of the coin of ‘positive’ behaviours, and should be recognized as such.  Parents tend to feel that it is a reflection of their upbringing.  If the child behaves ‘good’, they take the credit, and if the child behaves ‘bad’ they feel so embarrassed they often hurt or humiliate the child. The child is often mystified because he just expressed himself in a truly authentic manner.  Both in the NSP and the home, negative behaviour should be allowed as much as is possible or bearable.  In our home, I allowed everything even when I was hurt or embarrassed in public.  In the beginning I was just going on intuition.  But after 12 years of mothering, I can say with confidence that <em>all </em>children go through this phase, and this is only a phase in their development that they <em>need to explore</em> before they grow out of it.</p>
<p>Though everyone knows how primary education should be, and in many countries it is in practice for many years now, we have to really pressurize the authorities in our country to free our little ones.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">The practical problems are ‘where’</span>:  In every nook and cranny of the country there exists a school with at least a small play ground<span style="text-decoration:underline;">. </span></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"> ‘Who will initiate this move’</span>:  In every nook and cranny of this country, more than one NGO are already in operation, and they have a better picture of that territory than probably the government agencies in charge of that territory.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;"> ‘Who will send their children to these NSPs’</span>:  That will depend on the manner in which each NSP is launched.  And that will be a beginning.</p>
<p><strong>Case for computers for basic literacy:</strong></p>
<p>My younger two children have used CD Roms that took care of basic literacy completely.  I recommend that computer literacy go hand in hand with academic learning, and that websites be created in every language for every age group so that anyone can go to an NSP or a net café, and for a small fee per hour can learn reading, writing and numeracy.  John Holt has proved that learners of any age can learn reading in 30 hours.</p>
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<p><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Children and computers.</span></strong></p>
<p>1. When there is a warm understanding parent/ teacher/ care-giver, open air space to play, and minimum restrictions, it is my experience that children will not need computer and TV as addictive escapes.</p>
<p>2. Children prefer warm loving interaction and outdoor play and will choose it every time over computer games and TV.  It is in the absence of both the above and the addition of pressure to do this or that unwanted activity that children are left no choice but to watch TV and play mindless addictive repetitive games on the computer.</p>
<p>3. In most schools in India there is very little educational material and equipment.  Those who can afford it have to guard it like anything and still bits and pieces get lost.  Only a few children actually get hands-on educational tools and books to freely explore.</p>
<p>The computer has endless exploration possibilities that are properly researched and graded.  They are interesting and not addictive.  They also change levels automatically for each individual explorer.  Human teachers cannot have the ingenuity and energy for individual students like this.  Even as a mother I cannot give my children that level of individual input (in this particular area of basic literacy).</p>
<p>4. Human beings can give the warmth and the friendly interaction more easily if they don’t have to bother with academic progress for which humans need patience and computers handle with ease.</p>
<p>I am only referring to basic literacy and thinking skills here.</p>
<p>My children explore both the real world and the computer world easily.  I have more time to be mother, as well as teacher of things that the computer can never teach.  I am humble enough to realize that certain very good CD Roms do a better job than me in certain areas of academic learning!</p>
<p>5.  CD Roms are expensive, so I am suggesting that web-sites are created using   their very innovative and interesting methods.</p>
<p>6. The CDs that my children use are Dorling Kindersley, Sesame Street, Jump Start and many by Humungous Entertainment.  Each CD has a variety of characters, games and ways of learning different things.  Teams of teachers, child psychologists, ad. people, and artists have put these together.  No class room teacher can have that kind of combined expertise.  On the other hand many non-expert classroom teachers have a different quality of contribution that a computer CD cannot!</p>
<p>My children and some of my friend’s children who use these have also a tremendous love of books of all kinds: Stories, science experiments, research, maps…and they learnt how to better use their books and follow instructions and find things via their edutainment CDs.  And more importantly, they spend most of their time in creative play and structured games including board games.  I would say that computers are a new and innovative tool that can enhance learning multi-fold.</p>
<p>7.    When books started being used, people must have complained about losing the ability to memorize.  But soon information increased in quantity and diversity, that it was impossible not to use books.  Now books are considered invaluable tools.  When water started flowing through pipes, instead of being drawn fresh and clean from streams and wells…You see where this argument is leading….</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Computers save time</span>:  Children learn basic literacy and numeracy plus a host of thinking and problem solving skills effortlessly, painlessly and have great fun doing it.    Given an open air NSP full of children and friendly adults, they will automatically balance their computer time.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">It does not require skilled rescource persons:</span> as once the children know how to click about and follow the simple spoken instructions, no help is required at all. <span style="text-decoration:underline;">It does not require purchase, storage, maintenance of expensive materials and equipment</span>: Most schools cannot afford books and equipment. Montessori or other educational rescource equipment is expensive, and materials have to be guarded, rationed and maintained.  Computers on the other hand are almost as good as hands on equipment and one manipulates the ‘equipment’ with the click of a mouse!                                                 In addition, <span style="text-decoration:underline;">computers do not lose patience</span> when a child gives a ‘wrong’ answer. Children can even give repeated wrong answers for fun.  Wrong answers do not become an issue at all, thus removing the fear of failure.  And of course, the computer never runs out of rewards for every little achievement! <em>They praise the child generously and</em> <em>cheerfully</em>.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">The numerous software and other companies can donate computers</span> when they are upgrading.  I’m sure they will easily cover our 0-6 population. <span style="text-decoration:underline;">We need to invest in websites</span> <span style="text-decoration:underline;">for basic literacy</span> in the style of Sesame Street and DK in every possible language.  Instead of wasting time on arguing the ills of children and computers; children and TV; and children and advertisements, we should spend that time, in pooling our ad brains, child pshychologist brains and educationist brains to spread an interesting interactive education via these media.</p>
<p>Before I go on to the next developmental stage I would like to read an excerpt from some thoughts I had written on Intuition:</p>
<p>‘I am always grateful for the chance to share my thoughts and ideas.  I may be completely wrong here, mistaken there, slightly off-track somewhere else….  Only through dialogue can I myself learn.</p>
<p>Intuition has got buried by reason and intellect.   I don’t want to define intellect in this discussion.  Let us say that children are by and large intelligent.  Their intelligence is of different types.  An enlightened education can help them build on what they have.  A decadent education can pretty much wipe out all traces of many types of intelligences.  Intuition on the other hand is very little known about, as it is both intangible and unquantifiable.  Our present day education and educated society have forgotten its importance, and rely on science to fulfill human needs and solve world problems.   There are therefore many scientifically correct answers today, but no real solutions.  This stems from what Fritjof Capra termed as a ‘Newtonian mechanistic worldview’.</p>
<p>Quantum Physics has replaced this worldview, and has come close to Ancient Mysticism, in that the problem cannot be addressed from the <em>outside. </em>The result of an experiment will differ according to the <em>experimenter</em>.   A particle is <em>simultaneously </em>a wave.  “The Tao of Physics” by Capra explains this.  And his book “The Turning Point” relates it to all humankind’s institutions like medicine, industry and education. Quantum Physics shows that there can be no absolutes, no perfect solutions, and that even our perceptions can only be relative. Mystics have been saying this for centuries.  But how did they know?  Where does music come from?  Who created the universe?</p>
<p>Not science, not even knowledge, and definitely not money.</p>
<p>Adults of the ‘Newtonian mechanistic worldview’ think that children don’t know, so we have to take control of their lives, minds and bodies and fill them with what we think is best.  Actually children intuitively turn to what is best for them, <em>if let alone</em>.  Not completely, not without any direction or protection.  If you throw a baby in the water, it swims.  But you do it with caution.  If you throw a child in, they sink.  Later, we have to actually teach children to swim, step by step.  Great swimmers may learn in a trice or a year or two years. <em>No doubt, this all assumes that they had access to water.  And that is where the new education comes in. </em>The No School.</p>
<p>Though it is difficult to define intuition, I will put down some words that I have found in the thesaurus: instinct, sixth sense, divination, feeling in one’s bones, inborn, untaught, unlearned, spontaneous, automatic.</p>
<p>There is so much out there.  How are people to know what to choose.  Directories and guides are all external sources.  We need our own individual, personal inner guide.  To sift and sort without too much mind boggling reasoning.  Never before has there been so much information and so many choices.  No one can access everything there is. Each person can only rely on intuition, gut feelings, the inner voice to be their guide.  Children must be allowed to <em>believe</em> in themselves, to <em>trust</em> their own instincts.  It is important that we do not confuse wild fancies and momentary wishes with authentic indications.  Each of us will have to have <em>infinite faith</em> in that which is beyond and greater than ourselves.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Ages 7-11 &amp;12-16 their needs and infrastructural requirements:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Special aspects of ages 7-11</span></p>
<p>I find that the most charming aspect of this age is the endless creative play.  It actually starts much earlier than age 7 and carries on till age 9, and may continue into teenage.  I enjoy watching children, others as well as my own, turning all kinds of scrap material and real and imagined toys into houses, boats, vehicles, roads, cities….  In the garden, they run and jump and climb and hide.  They can play in water and sand beyond imagination.  They collect stones and shells, are fascinated by insects, leaves and plants.  They find birds nests in places that adults would never look, and are the first to know when the kittens are born, or when one of the garden pets go missing or are sick.  They watch the stars, the clouds and immediately recognize if something is strange or different.  They are keenly aware of sounds and smells and tastes that many of us have become desensitized to.</p>
<p><strong>Learner in Charge – Set the Children Free:</strong></p>
<p>I allow my children tremendous freedom at this stage. They have charge of their time, their activities and are even boss of their meals, bath, sleep, TV, computer and clothes.   Each goes through a phase when they watch too much TV, eat more junk food than healthy food, and don’t bathe for days.  My seven-year-old son only wears stretchy material T-shirts and pants (the kind one wears to sleep in), and he only wore rubber slippers for more than a year.  I had to limit our socializing, only meeting with people who would understand or would at least be tolerant of their lack of socially required dress and manners. Not that they were overtly ill mannered.  They were more like shy animals who would respond naturally to natural interaction, and retreat or even whine or yell at us to take them home if the interaction was of no interest to them. My son wore pyjamas and rubber slippers to a grand wedding that we once had to attend!</p>
<p>There is the question of abuse of freedom, and making wrong choices when the learner is in charge: The learner cannot be in charge if he is not free.  And a discussion of freedom is clearly beyond the scope of this paper.  It cannot be accomplished at the individual level or on a superficial level.  One has to fully understand its essence and its implications before an atmosphere of freedom can be brought about.  Within that atmosphere, the learner can be free, and in charge of his education.</p>
<p>There is also the question about balancing social obligations so as not to cause stress to children:  We try to minimize stress in our lives so that there is a minimum of yelling.  While our children are very young, we socialize only with people who understand our ways.  I am proposing here, that more people realize that social graces cause stress for little ones and parents of little ones.  Teenagers on the other hand may enjoy social graces!  They have the choice of dropping the unnecessary ones in adulthood.  Adults require various levels of decorum for different occasions.  For some occasions we have to choose our wardrobe and manners with care.  In others we may dress and behave much more free and naturally.  In the latter case, we would be able to recover who we are deep down and live harmoniously and connectedly.  Once we realize this, we would not demand social graces from children and we would allow them to grow naturally and retain their inner selves, enhancing their inner and outer worlds by harmonious and natural interaction as they grow.</p>
<p><strong>Drip method instead of nagging: </strong>Children need to, and in fact want to know what is allowed and what isn’t.  It shows them overtly that you care.  But the habitual nagging and shouting pattern that we parents tend to fall into just doesn’t work in the long run.  I try to use what I call ‘drip method’ to inform them what I think is not good for them.  That entails repeating unemotionally, not too often, and sometimes humorously, what is good for them and what isn’t.  Of course, every so often I do resort to bullying, bribing, manipulating and coercing.  For example, if I lose my patience, I just insist that this or that has to be done, and done NOW!  However, my husband and I have tried to design a life style that minimizes stress, so that I do not have to lose patience often.  It is not always easy, but it is worth the effort.  When relationships between children and adults are close and harmonious, children tend not to abuse their freedom.  And if adults indicate by drip method what should or shouldn’t be done, sooner or (quite often), later, the child figures out for himself that what he/she is required to do is not just to please someone else, but for their own good.  As a mother, I give a lot of time for them to realize this.  Many would not agree with the amount of time I allow.  For some things I allow months, and for some, even years.  When they finally choose, it is a well-considered choice, and stems from inner conviction that has a power of its own.</p>
<p>(Over time, with my husband’s help and a lot of hard work, I completely stopped bullying, bribing, manipulating and coercing.  For this one needs much community support!)</p>
<p>Creative alternatives &#8211; an example:</p>
<p>When my son was glued to the TV in July, I was frantic.  I tried everything but nothing worked.  Then, as usual, when one gets pushed to the edge, a solution presents itself.  I kept all sorts of stuff he loves doing on a table nearby; like puzzles, minute put together toys that require concentration and effort to complete, favourite books etc.  Though he would be in front of the TV, gradually his attention shifted to his activity.  Over the months, he gradually came back to life, and was himself again, although he would still rush back for his show or his match.  An interesting feature in all this is, that he does not watch passively.  He watches interesting shows, remembers details, and notes down match timings and the names of the teams.  He is thus practicing reading quickly off the screen, writing, and memorizing.  He learns science, from science shows; geography is covered through football, as player’s names, names of countries, flags, accents, and every so often clips of the country where the match is being played are shown. All three children love pouring over maps, and until they started on this activity, I had no idea how much can be gleaned from each map. Even while watching, he prances about practicing fancy footwork with his football, and then moves off during breaks to continue some project or other.  Sometimes he keeps up an analytical discussion with one of us about what is going on on the screen.  Later he can recall and recount throws, passes, incidents and relate them or demonstrate to anyone who shows interest.  Through this example I wish to show how the Learner in Charge and Set the Children Free concept converted something that can be harmful into something quite educationally interactive and productive.</p>
<p><strong>Breadth, depth begin to manifest:</strong></p>
<p>This is a relatively ‘easy’ stage, and it is very tempting to try to ‘mould’ children.</p>
<p>It is my personal opinion that if children were allowed sufficient freedom in the 0-6 period, they are more likely to know their own minds and be guided by their intuition in successive stages.  I try to control the urge to push them into this that or the other activity or behaviour.  I find that letting them have charge of their time, space and activities, their own intuition guides them.  Their interests and emerging talents become evident, and guide me as to what I can do to make resources and resource persons available, and keep my antenna tuned towards people and places they could get in touch with in future.</p>
<p>Breadth, length and depth begin to manifest within the child.  I have taken words from the thesaurus to indicate what I mean:</p>
<p><em>Breadth </em>as in extensiveness, range, vastness, magnitude, immensity of knowledge and capabilities; breadth of spirit as in liberality, broad-mindedness, open-mindedness, freedom, and magnanimity<em>; Length </em>as in extent, thoroughly, exhaustively, go to any limits, observe no limits;<em> Depth </em>as in profundity, wisdom, understanding, discernment, insight, awareness, penetration, astuteness, acumen, shrewdness, acuity, complexity, intricacy, intensity, richness, vividness<em>, </em>strength and brilliance<em>.</em></p>
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<p><strong>Energy Flow:</strong></p>
<p>Call it intuition, ancient memory or a wild surmise: I feel that <em>emotional responses</em> to children as a <em>habit</em> have been accepted, and we adults use various excuses as ‘good reason’ to react that way.  The obvious effect is that children in turn react emotionally.  In many cases they block something within.  The more emotional blocks caused by major and minor emotional traumas, the less easily energy can flow. <em>Learning</em>, and I use this word in its total magnificence, not as it is bandied about today, flows in through our experience via our senses.  The more blocks, the bigger the blocks, less learning/experience/energy/chi can flow. Physical and psychological health suffers.</p>
<p>Rather than react emotionally, I try to <em>respond appropriately</em>.  It is not always easy, because the former is a well-formed habit and the latter requires a degree of inner silence.</p>
<p>No commitment, short-term commitment, working towards serious commitments:</p>
<p>I found that in some cases my daughter would flit from one incomplete project or activity to another.  Sometimes she would return and do some more on and off.  Some projects may never have got completed.  I did not find it necessary at this stage to say, “Stick to one thing and learn to finish it.”  Because I felt that this was a time of search, experimentation and creativity.  My son who is now in this age bracket takes on very few projects and goes at them with great intensity till he finishes them. Then he has to take a long break.  He is a perfectionist and will demand adult help so that there are no mistakes and mess.  He also dreams a lot in between one intense activity and the next.  I resist the temptation to get him to ‘do something’ every time I see him ‘doing nothing’.  I find that open ended ness rather than trying to time bind a project leaves more scope for new ideas to emerge and for the project to diversify.  It also becomes evident if the project is not satisfactory and can be dumped instead of expending unnecessary time and energy on it.</p>
<p>My first child had been at home and really over-protected until the age of 6. I felt it necessary for her to venture out into the world a bit.  She was timid and clingy by nature, and not much inclined to do so.  Over the first few years she committed to one class of special interest, for a short duration, and then took a break.  These short-term commitments with initially very long spaces in between were an education in many things like dealing with the outside world, strangers, getting ready in time and time bound projects designed by someone else.  These were usually creative classes where they did take the child into account and allowed some scope for creativity and a few choices.  Over the next few years she committed for a year to a once a week class.  There were times when she would want to break the commitment or at least miss a class.  I took the opportunity to <em>discuss the reasons</em>.  The problem turned out to be an incompetent teacher, but the course itself was interesting. I helped her to <em>deal with her feelings</em> and thereby handle the situation.    One class she joined and where we paid a high fee but turned out not to her liking (or mine), we discontinued though we lost the money.  I figured that the money lost was less than the ‘intangible’ losses due to continuing something that was not worth taking time and energy out for.  By the end of this stage she committed herself to more than one, yearlong programme at a time, was able to cope with strict teachers and increasing amounts of practice and homework.  She expressed a wish to join mainstream school, and I did not hesitate an instant, as I had already felt that she had completed her home education successfully and was ready to join mainstream.  I leave the choice up to her as to which aspects of mainstream she wishes to join.  Academically she was behind what her age children had covered, so since June she has taken on the Herculean job of ‘learning the syllabus’!</p>
<p>Sahya’s early academic journey:</p>
<p>Sahya learnt to read by age 9, and there were many times I worried about it.  Later I came upon a website on unschooling, which mentioned that some children read at 4, and some at 14, and by 18, no one can tell the difference!  (So many children and parents around the world are suffering because experts are telling them about their children’s variously entitled learning disabilities, when actually there is nothing wrong with these children.  Many are brilliant, but grow up severely damaged because of these, according to me, fictitious diagnoses.)  Sahya only wrote birthday cards for years, her spelling of ‘Happy Birthday’ evolving so sweetly over the years.  Around her ninth year, she would be writing lists, time-tables, little stories (she is quite a story writer), and often she would yell, “Mama, how do you spell _?”  And without having to leave off what I was doing, I would yell back the spelling.  So when people ask me what our homeschool schedule is, this is an example of why we never needed a schedule.  In mirambika, a free progress school in New Delhi, founded by Neeltje and Mattijs, where children learned in a very harmonious and aesthetic atmosphere, through group and individual projects, I remember a girl who hated to write.  But when she was 14 or so, she wrote a play that the children acted out.  Perhaps it is the extra gifted who learn to write late.  Perhaps late writers are gathering material to write about.  Let us explore these possibilities before judging our brilliant children as disabled or deficient and then embarking on programmes that disable their inner genius, neutralizing it forever.</p>
<p>Though I needn’t worry, every so often I <em>do</em> worry, and it is Sahya who puts my doubts at rest and shows my fears to be baseless.   For example, around the beginning of this year she decided that she wants to study towards joining school.  Since she started so late on the syllabus, she has a lot of ‘catching up’ to do.  In the beginning I was so afraid that this ‘catching up’ would eclipse her other areas of interest and activity, and initially it did, as the routine was unfamiliar and exhausting.  She attends academic and non-academic classes for which she has to complete homework.   All this necessarily forms a structured routine.  But as I write this, it is the beginning of October, and she is able to draw, compose, read, work on her own on-going academic projects on the computer as well as in her notebooks, write umpteen short stories, make her bead jewelry, go for her monthly nature trek, play indoor and outdoor games…the list is endless as is her capacity, and her ability to manage her time.</p>
<p>Time and space to learn intangibles:</p>
<p>Though now her life is relatively routine and not very flexible, I feel that the earlier years being without routine and completely flexible left scope for more to emerge in terms of self awareness, awareness of other people and things and to figure out how they operate; awareness of how to interact with the world, ones personal preferences, limitations; getting a ‘feel’ of what is going on; time to discuss troublesome areas and other intangibles.  Her time management capacity, inner discipline and punctuality, may be because no one else had charge of making her routine and pushing her around the clock.</p>
<p>Expressing affection and physical touch:</p>
<p>As children grow older, many parents forget, or don’t deem it necessary, or feel awkward to hug and cuddle their children.  I think that physical closeness, comforting and kissing in India may be decreasing due to rushed schedules.  This is something that when postponed indefinitely, can be very awkward to re establish.  Often we may wake up when it is too late.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Ages 11-16.</span></strong></p>
<p>I had written many of the earlier ideas before I had children, so though what I write for the next two age groups is not backed by direct experience, you will all see its relevance for it is common knowledge which needs focus.</p>
<p><strong>Need for serious, honest feedback:</strong></p>
<p>When I worked, learned and taught at mirambika, N. Delhi, a free progress school, during my last year I was working closely with a group of children who were turning 12.  Around the ages 11-12, they wanted to take their academics seriously; they wanted proper feedback, not just “Wow! That’s great”, and they wanted me to be strict with them.  I had the same experience with my daughter, who mouthed almost the same sentences I’d heard all those many years ago.</p>
<p><strong>Need to take on the tough life:</strong></p>
<p>Alongside serious academics, my twelve year old daughter wants to do ‘everything’.  And unlike when she was a child, she manages to organize her time to a large extent.  Now she very rarely whines or complains, when things get tough, but just grits her teeth and gets on with it. But mostly, she can manage to do what has to be done without much ado.  In fact she loves the feeling of challenge, competition and overcoming life’s toughies.</p>
<p><strong>Need to socialize:</strong></p>
<p>Becomes a serious matter.  Many people criticize homeschooling and unschooling on grounds of ‘socialization’.  Human beings living in remote areas, on lonely farms, and all corners of non-urban earth, have been able to socialize without prior training!  There are books and movies and history written about the problems overcome and the humorous experiences of first encounters with a new social set up.  Socialization comes naturally to humans.  We are gregarious animals.  Non-school goers meet with different kinds of people in real life situations, and meet society in stages with gradually decreasing protection.  School children are in an inescapable situation with little or no advice or protection.  A child is stuck with a bully that as an adult he would be able to avoid; or with a cruel teacher, that in adulthood one would be able to cope with.  It is easier for non-school going children to change their coping mechanisms and upgrade their responses with changing situations and people as they grow.  School going children can too, but the situation and people remain the same, and responses tend to become a habit, which are harder to break.</p>
<p><strong>Infrastructure for ages 7-11 and 12-16:</strong></p>
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<p><strong>Where</strong>:</p>
<p>Education should happen all over the city, town and village. It needn’t be confined within the walls of institutions.  Individual persons who are gifted and wish to share their skill or knowledge can operate from their homes or neighbourhoods; two individuals can set up a learning exchange at their mutual convenience; great gurus and earnest shishyas will find each other; groups can get together for a combined learning process or project; apprenticeships are a great source of practical learning that benefit the master and the apprentice in many ways.  The paths and ways of education are numerous.</p>
<p>Individuals:</p>
<p>Teachers, housewives, retired persons, students, artists…any individual can operate from their home, or from the Neighbourhood Safe Place. This encourages individuals to earn from their own talents, interests and hobbies.  It saves on transport, congestion, pollution and energy.  Each neighbourhood will be abuzz with teachers and learners in innumerable fields.</p>
<p>Guru Shishya:</p>
<p>This would need an elaborate and detailed explanation beyond the scope of this paper, so I will only mention it as an important part of a larger educational canvas.</p>
<p>One to one; groups:</p>
<p>Learning exchanges on a one to one basis can be worked out.  I once taught piano to a friend who taught me Hindustani Vocal.</p>
<p>Groups can get together to learn something together, do a project together, form a team where each brings in something different to the group project, thus enriching the learning experience.</p>
<p>Children learn beautifully from each other.  Anything my eldest learns filters down more effectively to the younger ones. They also all learn from each other in a most natural way.</p>
<p>Apprenticeships:</p>
<p>Every business from a bicycle repair shop to a huge corporation can have apprenticeships, training departments and any sort of educational section that they can use to benefit their own business while teaching it.</p>
<p>Professionals like hairdressers, doctors, dentists, lawyers, architects, engineers can also have young apprentices who learn hands on before, during, after their professional courses.  (They are all unanimous that the hands on training is worth more than the professional course syllabi that turn out to be largely irrelevant in practice.)</p>
<p>Formal education institutions:</p>
<p>I have included formal education as a part of educational possibilities, and not as an all important, childhood and youth consuming aspect.   There is a kind of safety and protection that busy parents can rely on in a formal institution.  However, the compulsory syllabus has to be drastically reduced, and the choices and options available to students increased, so that they may choose how much time they will spend, and on what they will spend that time.  Children should be free to take a day, a month or a year off to participate in non formal school activities, take a trip somewhere.  There has to be much more fluidity and flexibility.  All this is really hard to monitor and to convince parents who are paying fees.  Therefore interested parents should be allowed to involve themselves in their children’s projects and school lives constantly.  Their places of work must allow for this.  This may cause even more difficulties in organization.  To really benefit from flexibility, people will have to learn the art of Disciplined Negotiation and Emotional Control!</p>
<p><strong>Non-formal places of education:</strong></p>
<p>Many non-formal learning institutions exist, though not as many as I would like to see.  NGO’s have them on building sites, slum areas, and villages.  They find it very effective, and that it encourages children to come to school.  Some enlightened urban parents have opted to send their children to non-formal schools, but they often have to pull out due to the board exam monster, that universal leveler, and the pre-requisites to further studies and job opportunities.</p>
<p>Computer centers use non-formal methods.  Students go straight into hands on practical applications.  Again, found to be very effective.</p>
<p>International Baccalaureate and Montessori schools do a marvelous job, however, they require highly trained and therefore well-paid staff, they spend on materials, equipment, transport etc.  The fee therefore becomes quite prohibitive.</p>
<p>Non-formal schools usually require extra funds; special kinds of training for their staff, children tend to spend years with the same small group of people, which inhibits growth and change.  In many setups a large part of the burden rests upon the teachers, while children have fun and parents complain!</p>
<p>These problems could be overcome if educational infrastructure suggestions such as those that follow below, are in place.</p>
<p>Though millions of people want options to formal schooling, they cannot take the risk of opting for it, as the board exam is the only ticket to higher education and jobs.  Thus true learning alternatives become impossible.  It is precisely for this reason that I propose the removal of tests and board exams.  They can be replaced by entrance tests specific to entering an institution or job, which are designed by the institutions and corporations themselves.  In any case the combined content of board exams is mostly irrelevant to the individual and organizations.</p>
<p><strong>Hands on exploration:</strong></p>
<p>In some countries there are science and other museums where children can learn by doing.  Our country would do well to invest in such places.  Children love visiting the planetarium in Mumbai and the University of Pune has a child friendly science center where some remarkable people are poplularizing science for children, especially of Municipal schools.</p>
<p><strong>Organize field trips:</strong></p>
<p>In Pune we have some wonderful organizations, and I’m sure they exist in other parts of the country and the world.  Some take children on nature trails, and over-night camps; some take families on treks and camping holidays.  There are art field trips, pottery workshops and ‘enrichment’ classes (some of which are spurious.)  We even have a remarkable children’s computer class that teaches computer through art and craft, which includes working with wood, beads, clay and metal.</p>
<p>We need organizations to take children to art galleries, museums, science centers, libraries, planetariums…</p>
<p>Plurality is the concept I am trying to put forward.  More choices, more ways of doing things, more options in every line.  Always remembering that intuition will/should guide the individual as to what to do when and how.</p>
<p><strong>Farmers, social workers, hospitals:</strong></p>
<p>Are always in need of extra hands.  There can be a crash course followed by short-term commitment, especially by youth in their late teens and early twenties who need to earn and learn.  While the learning in colleges gets increasingly academic, working for basic human needs may have a very balancing effect that will round off their education on a more realistic level.</p>
<p>Villagers have a lot to teach the urban population.  Rather than us going in there and teaching them math and science implying that that is superiour  to what they know, we can organize learning exchanges based on mutual need and interest, rather than board exam requirements so far removed from their reality.</p>
<p><strong>Education Directory:</strong></p>
<p>To let students of all ages, know what is available, I suggest an Education Directory, listing details of courses and teachers.  It may not be easy, and the business angle will have people or organizations pretending to be something they are not.  Categorization may not be too easy either.  But an education directory for every city/town is essential.  In spite of constant tests and exams keeping children away from other than board exam related activities there is a demand for other kinds of learning.  The supply is also on the increase.</p>
<p><strong>Safe Road and Transport System:</strong></p>
<p>Children have a right to safe roads and a special transport system.  In order to travel to places of interest, hobby, individual or group learning, they will need safe private and public run buses.  We could have male and female bus drivers and conductors.  Volunteer parents could take turns in monitoring routes.  Grandparents who otherwise baby-sit at home could ride the bus every so often to ensure safety.  These are just suggestions.  Businesspersons, NGOs, government agencies and parents from different walks of life can together devise various suitable systems.  More important but most difficult is re-organizing the roads to accommodate safe bicycling paths and sidewalks.</p>
<p><strong>Parents’ involvement:</strong></p>
<p>All parents are not inclined to be involved with children.  However, there are some who would love to be included and many whose contributions could prove invaluable.  Some may be good at planning and organization.  Some may be great at just being with children and joining in the activities, lending a helping hand.  Some may be good at trouble-shooting and coming up with creative solutions.  Some may be great teachers who couldn’t take up teaching as a career, but who would feel fulfilled if they had a chance to teach.  Both children and adults can benefit.</p>
<p>In today’s world this seems impossible due to parents’ schedules and board exam constraints.  The idea will have to really take root before this sort of thing can start happening.  In some countries parents do visit and join in classroom activities, and it is a proven success.</p>
<p><strong>Need for peer group:</strong></p>
<p>This is an age when the need for peer group and interaction with the opposite sex becomes intensified.  I don’t know what exists in the rest of the world, but our country needs places for teenagers to hang out and activities like dance, drama, singing, trekking, visits to places of interest etc.  Adults who interact with teenagers need to understand their needs and emotions.  At the moment most teenagers are stuck in classrooms, and with tuition teachers after school.  According to me, this is the worst way in which this age group can spend their time.  We assume that they are safe and out of trouble.  But their bodies are there, while their minds are elsewhere, yearning to be free.  Why cannot we allow the body, mind and soul to travel together?  This kind of repression has a price.</p>
<p><strong>Serious about learning:</strong></p>
<p>In ancient societies, (American Indian, Spartan Greece, India) boys went through rigorous initiation rites and tests, to prove their readiness for the transition into adulthood.  As I mentioned earlier, children want things to get seriously tough.  They want our help to push them to their limits.  Not just in academics, but in as many things as they are capable of.  This can be a really exciting stage of interaction between parents/teachers/caregivers and children.  Usually, since children are relatively more independent by age 11, adults heave a sigh of relief, and get on with their own lives, not suspecting how much interaction will benefit both parties and the community!  Keep the communication going.  It is easy to lose, and then very difficult to re-establish.</p>
<p><strong>Accreditation:</strong></p>
<p>The many types of learning centers and organizations dealing with this age group can get more exacting and tough about quality of work, commitment to projects and coverage of large areas and levels in the child’s sphere of interest.  The quality of person that holds accreditation from a teacher or institute will be a shining example of that teachers’ prowess and will increase the standing of the institution.  (At the moment, ‘good’ schools usually only take responsibility for high grades and cent per cent results.)  Children shine when they have meaningful challenges.</p>
<p>In conclusion I will leave you with a dream:  A world in which there are no board examinations, and infinite places, paths and means of learning.  Where the minds and bodies of all children and mankind are set free within the constraints of basic community.  Let alertness and intuition be our constant guide that will lead us to our more illumined, beauteous selves continuous with creation.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>Towards a New Education </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><strong>The journey continues…</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;">Written in 2007 for the conference entitled Indian Psychology Theory and Models, Bengaluru.</p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Introduction:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">When I  first put my ideas together for a paper entitled Towards a New  Education, I had described some of our family home education  experiences, and went on to outline many options and alternative ideas  of ways to pursue education as an individual, group, teacher or student  of any age, on an ongoing basis.  The conference itself was a tremendous learning experience for me.   Never before had I shared a space with so many learned people  sharing such deep and ancient knowledge, covering vast areas of human  experience.  And the venue, if I may use such an ordinary term for such a  hallowed place, where Sri Aurobindo and The Mother lived and loved and taught, touched something in the centre of my being that changed the way I lived, loved and learned. In this paper I will attempt to share a bit of my journey, my understanding, and my hope for the future of education. This is a completely subjective paper.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Opening the floodgates of awareness and pinpointing focus:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">In everyone’s journey, there are certain people, books, situations or experiences that suddenly or gradually sharpen the senses, open up the mind, transport us to alternate spaces where our old perceptions disintegrate and a new awareness floods our being. Some of us experience the wonder of the moment but then allow it to slip back in time, further and further till it even leaves the realm of our memory.  Some of us may hold on to it till we find it too hard to live the life we are used to while experiencing ‘the alternate’, and almost without realizing it, ‘the alternate’  slips into the past, leaving behind only perhaps a wistful memory.   Some of us make a change.  We put a great burst of energy into stepping  into a new reality.  It may take a lot out of us, but it is worth it.  Perhaps it makes us so tired, that we never attempt  any such thing ever again, and soon we become comfortable and begin to  stagnate.  One day we wonder why the Great Change didn’t have any  lasting effect.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">This paper deals with some practical aspects of living in the world while learning creatively, perhaps transcendently. I would like to share certain experiences during the last two decades that opened the floodgates of awareness and helped me pinpoint focus.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>People:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">It would be impossible  to make a comprehensive list of my ‘teachers’, because I consider all  my relationships as teaching-learning: My family, extended family,  friends, house helps.  Even people whom I approach casually, or who may  approach me, bring new learning to my process.  But there are certain  people who can frame a question that sets off a train of thought, or  open up a series of ideas, or make me sharp and focused.  There are certain ongoing relationships especially with those closest to me – my spouse and children, my parents, brother, in laws and friends &#8211; that refuse to stagnate and keep progressing, pushing boundaries, insisting on higher levels of thinking and being.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">For  example, during a heated discussion, my husband insists that we set our  own standards and do not make comparisons with others. We do not pattern our lives remotely like anyone else’s, but rather clear our own paths through the undergrowth. It can sometimes take a great amount of energy, and it can also be very uplifting and energizing.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Books:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The  same can be said of books, music, works of art…So many have been  invaluable and added dimensions to my experience that go beyond words.   And miraculously, there have been books that have come to me at the right time, almost as if something in me called to it, and it appeared on cue.  I’m sure many, if not all of you have had these experiences.  Perhaps it is time to take cognizance of these experiences and make them the base for our higher learning.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Many people have exclaimed in wonder about how they opened a book randomly, and the contents of the page were an answer to something they’d been puzzling over.  I have a friend who sometimes has terrible fears and doubts about  homeschooling her children.  The day she decides she is going to put  them back in school, she opens the newspapers and finds some unusual  horror story about school!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The focused awareness that sometimes occurs when experiencing the arts in their most beautiful form is somewhat less tangible. One could be the artiste or the observer.  But these are not the only ways to experience art.  Older communities, including the ones that remain relatively unchanged till today, have taught us that everyone can be a participant in art.  They decorate their homes and bodies, they tell stories, dance or act out scenes in traditional forms. They make their own colours and paint on walls, barks or stones. Today, more and more so called non artistes are gathering to participate in any form of artistic expression: a community drum circle, a family theatre workshop, a group of friends play music and paint, or move to music or do clay modeling or origami together.  Anyone can organize participatory art anywhere, with anyone.  For this purpose there is no need of a teacher, expertise, or learning of skills.  This is intangible, experiential learning at a deeper level. Something deep within you awakens and finds expression.  Inexplicable yearnings experience fulfillment.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Experiences:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Certain experiences in my life were a direct result of individuals who put their very special personal energy  into creating a framework within which people can learn about the self,  by creating spaces, techniques, methods and modules and infusing it  with their love, in order to help people come closer to their inner being and touch the light.  I would like to give a brief description of each, and request others to  share with me the names of people, books, arts and experiences that  have helped them.  I must add here, that what is right for me appears before me, and what  is right for each of you, appears before you.  The descriptions that follow are only to act as pointers as to the elements which could help people identify what could be beneficial, or to recognize what has helped in the past so that one can mentally refer back to the experience in order to help in one’s personal search or inner journey and higher learning.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Mirambika:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">In my  mid-twenties I was guided to mirambika by two completely different  friends, who inhabited two different worlds!  In the Sri Aurobindo  Ashram grounds itself I marveled  at how each of the schools there was a completely different world unto  itself.  If I ever lived in multiple worlds simultaneously, it was  during my four years teaching in the three schools and dining at the ashram daily.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Mirambika  was designed as an inside-outside space.  When inside, you could feel  that you were outside because instead of outer walls there are tall glass windows, and on the inner side each  segment has a verandah circling an inner garden.  When you are out in  one of the inner gardens, you are also ‘inside’ one of the schools  segments!  There are many other unique architectural features for which a visit is recommended for those who are interested.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">I cannot précis mirambika into a small paragraph, so I will attempt to put a few of the main ideas across, under two headings: Free Progress, and Integral Education.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Free Progress:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">There is no external curriculum, test or exam set by ‘others’.  Children introspect on Fridays and choose a topic to work on, and  whether they will work individually or in a group. They discuss it with  each other and the Didi or Bhaiya who has been assigned to their group  for the year and make a broad plan. On Saturdays, the Didi or Bhaiya (Diyas) spend time planning how to help the children attain their goals  using all the resources available in the library, science lab, art and  crafts room, music room, drama props and even out and around the ashram  grounds.  If necessary, the work can be carried out beyond the grounds  in the form of a field trip or exploration. At the end of the topic, the children make a presentation.  Children are completely free in their choice of topic, with whom they will work or not work, how they will carry out their plan, and the manner in which the end of topic presentation is made.  Diyas and other children in the group provide help, support, suggestions and feedback.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Integral Education:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The whole child and the Diyas, participate in the education process.  There is time and space planned into the framework for working on the spiritual, emotional, physical and mental being. The children do not sit in one place or even in one room.  They use their whole bodies including all five senses continuously. There is as much time spent in meditation, silence and introspection as in sports and physical activity, in arts, crafts, cooking, experiments, drama and music as in discussing interpersonal issues and problem solving, as in academics &#8211; Diyas and children alike.   I learned and grew in all these areas as much as any child who attended  the school.  There was never a feeling of authority from any adult. If something of authority had to be expressed, it could even emerge from the mouth of a child! When the class is getting rowdy, it is not uncommon for a child to get fed up and say, “Didi, I don’t think we should waste time arguing, we better start focusing”,  because they feel equal responsibility for their time, their chosen topic or activity.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">On Saturday mornings, Diyas would gather together to meditate and discuss overall plans for the week and any issues of general interest and importance.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">So to  me, ‘integral’ means the whole child, all the people, the whole space  and environment.  Each group was responsible for maintaining their own classroom and each group took a turn caring for some other part of the school.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">At the  end of the year there would be a Thanksgiving gathering to which all  the parents were invited.  There would be activities organized by the  children and Diyas, in some of which  the parents could participate.  Children would also create performances  complete with costumes and props, music and movement.  After a stage  performance, I have always noticed a subtle ‘growing up’ kind of change that occurs in children; they mature. Creative theatrical presentations are dynamic, challenging many parts of the being to open up and find expression.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The gratitude I felt for the past year on Thanksgiving Day used to make me feel like I was lifted gently by a beam of light, and that my body was as light as air…I would return home feeling energized!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Dreamwork:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">My  father, among many other things, is also a renowned dream therapist.  He  uses many techniques to help the dreamer understand what they are  telling themselves through their own dreams.  Only the dreamer can decipher their own dream metaphors.   For example, one person thought a lamb was the stupidest creature on  earth, whereas to the dreamer, it was the cutest, soft, cuddly,  creature!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Dreams may reveal something of the past, present or future. One dream metaphor can hold the past, present and future within it with surprising clarity. People, situations or things may represent some other person, concept or message.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The  Mother once related an interesting example of a pre cognitive dream:  A  French salesman dreamt that his body was in a coffin in an elevator, and  a man in uniform was pointing at him.  The next morning, approaching  the elevator, he was reminded of his dream when the uniformed elevator  man pointed him towards the elevator which was quite full of people.   The salesman swiftly chose the stairs.  The elevator crashed leaving no survivors!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">A skilled therapist will not project meanings, but will help dreamers uncover and discover their own unconscious minds.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">I am no expert, so I cannot discuss the four sleep states or the realms of the unconscious mind, but I would like to share that continual practice in recalling dreams, and unraveling their mysteries, and knowing about Shushupti, the dreamless state in which each of us becomes one with the Source or Consiousness every single night, is an ongoing process where bits of magic and mystery are revealed.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Arts Based T</strong><strong>herapies:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Annually, I used to attend  a workshop that uses language, poetry, theatre, sound, movement, drums  and rhythm, colour and painting, story telling and nature to help break  through our normal patterns of being and gain a deeper understanding of  who we are and what we are meant to be and do.  Through their games and  techniques we find ourselves suddenly confronted with what is  meaningless or restrictive in our lives, and how we can overcome these  unnecessary hurdles.  Perhaps some people know this, but it was a revelation to me that art  is not only a means of expression, but also of self discovery, higher learning, healing, inner and outer development.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Forgiveness:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">I was rather unsure of what ‘unconditional love and forgiveness’ is all about, and was amazed to learn that  the ancient Essenes who spoke Aramaic, the root language for some of  the worlds modern religions, used words that have been distorted when  deciphered by religious leaders with vested interests.  For example my  school girl understanding of the word discipline would be to bend my  will to that of the authorities.  The original Aramaic word has been  explained as ‘use of reason and sensitivity to natural consequences in an effort to establish desirable goals and behavior’.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Disease – The result of lack of harmony in an individual, due to the individual’s blocking love and the flow of Naphsha’s* energy.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">*Naphsha:  Soul, Higher Self, essence, the ‘breath of life.’ Every person has a  Naphsha, and is a Naphsha by virtue of existence.  Naphsha cannot be  destroyed; it is the controlling core, the organizing center of energy,  the managing agent, the source of mental, physical, emotional, and  spiritual development, the Naphsha is the source of serenity, harmony,  wisdom, forgiveness and healing; it is in contact with universal laws  and the laws of the individual’s being.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Failure:  Lack of achievement of a goal; the result of error; a means by which we learn.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Forgive  (Shbag): To cancel demands and expectations one makes on the Source,  others and the self as a condition for expressing love and other  positive attitudes.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Gratitude:  A transpersonal quality which can change our attitudes and elevate our  consciousness; a feeling of joyful appreciation for the good in self,  others, and the environment.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Humility:  (Makikh): an attitude which enables us to see the needs of others as  they see them or will see them, and a desire to fulfill those needs, if  practical.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Edith  Stauffer Ph.D. has combined the code of conduct of the Essenes,  painstakingly rendered into appropriate English by Sadook de Mar Shimun;  and psychosynthesis, a holistic, transpersonal psychology created by    Roberto Assagioli, MD, and created ways to raise consciousness above the illusion most of us experience, to help us through simple practical exercises to  release the hate, anger and resentment through forgiveness and  unconditional love, and increase personal health and universal harmony.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">I went  through a deep forgiveness, releasing feelings of anger and resentment I  held for years.  The people against whom I felt these feelings were not  even aware of my releasing these feelings, but our relationship which  had all but died, re awakened and is a great source of ongoing learning  and beauty in my life.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">One  can also forgive the self, releasing feelings of guilt and inadequacy  that resulted in undesirable behaviour that one finds difficult to live  with the memory of.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Once  the technique is learned, it is possible to practice forgiveness every  time one feels emotions blocking up with negativity against a person,  institution or even the self.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Yoga and Breathing:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">I would be  embarrassed to speak about yoga and breathing before such an august  audience whose knowledge of the subject is much wider than my own.   Since my paper is subjective, however, please allow me to say that for  me, breath is my most precious gift of life. Any time of the day or night I catch myself breathing shallow and then consciously breathe with deep gratitude.  I visualize the breath of life that connects us to everything on earth and literally makes us one.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The  fairly regular practice of my simplistic knowledge of yogasanas and  pranayama have had a healing effect on my body, emotions, improved my  understanding of people and relationships, my ability to learn, and if not be in different dimensions, at least be aware of different dimensions.  There is something about moving, stretching and breathing in special ways that though I do not understand how it happens, it takes one outside the self and deep into the self helping to maintain a kind of dynamic balance, where there is chaos and also order. In a way, it teaches me how to ‘ride the cycles’ that I will speak about later.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>New perceptions of life, situations, actions</strong><strong> – living and learning creatively</strong><strong>:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The above models showed me that there  is no need to leave your life, your city or your spouse and go into the  forest or mountains to gain a new perspective.  Everything is perfect  as it is.  Everyone and everything can be your problem or your teacher,  depending on which way you are looking at it.  You can allow your boss to keep hammering you into the ground, or you  can perceive him as a poor misguided soul who needs someone to  understand him, or you can see him as a mythical beast and yourself a  small but physically agile and mentally cunning hunter!  There is no end  to the possibilities…You can even deeply forgive him every morning  before you go to work, releasing yourself from the feelings of resentment.  Then go to work and experience the miracle!</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Once we accept that situations in life are inevitable, but also multidimensional, we can live more creatively, using more and more of our locked in potential to synchronize our own dance with the rhythm of life.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Another truth we all know but find hard to accept is the cyclic nature of existence.  We have to learn to Ride the Cycles!   My parents spent almost a year laboriously teaching me how to stay  balanced on a bicycle.  My brother on the other hand, just jumped on and  rode! (Some people need a lot of assistance, some people need more time…)  Of course we are not on a bicycle, we are riding  multi-cycles:  some parts are up, while others are elsewhere; some areas are circling  in this direction and some in another…I guess the ‘normal’ people are  those who try to gather all the cycles together and keep things level  and in control.  Those  who are able to use more of their creative potential may be able to  retain balance in multiple spheres.  I am guessing that schizophrenics  choose a different cycle, one at a time. Imagine a roller coaster. Once we lose our sense of ‘upness’ and ‘down-ness’, and our ‘fear of falling’, Riding the Cycles can be pure joy.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">As we learn and grow, take on and let go:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Intuition</strong> becomes stronger, sharper.  We learn to trust it more.  There is less incidence of error. Intuition is something hard to explain, but every one of us has experienced it almost tangibly.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>The ‘I’ </strong>becomes less and less, and a feeling of ‘oneness’ with people, situations and things begins to permeate one’s being.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Openness </strong>allows the Light to shine through, dispelling Shadows of Doubt and the Darkness of Fear.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">These above three are also cyclic:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">One listens to one’s <em>intuition</em> (which is very soft and imperceptible in the beginning);  One experiences an increased feeling of <em> ‘one</em><em>ness</em><em>’</em> with ‘the other’, (which is difficult  because the ‘I’ is very assertive in remaining separate till we ‘know’ the self better);</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">We are more able to <em>overcome doubts and fears</em>, and the cycle sets in motion.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">It cannot be perceived as a linear journey from weak intuition to strong; from separate ‘I’ to connectedness; or from doubt and fear to consciousness. It is always dynamic, cyclic…</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Changed p</strong><strong>erception of Family Home Education:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">As a parent of children who do not go to school but learn naturally, at home and everywhere, I have learned to remember that:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· I  do not own my children.  They are mine and not mine.  They are in my  control and out of my control.  They are in my sphere of influence and  beyond any influence I may try to impose upon them.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· I  do not know what is best for them. As parents we often tend to have  hopes and dreams on our children’s behalf, then without too much thought  or research, we set about trying to get them into that stream, or some stream, without any guarantee that what we are doing is <em>really</em> good for them in the long run, and will actually turn out the way we imagine. Each child has their own Inner Guide.  We often make too much noise for them to remain centered and listening to their own Inner Guide.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· When I try to control my children’s actions, learning, destiny, I completely rob them of the mystery, magic and their own creative response to life.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· They are sometimes my parent/teacher/wise person.  Our relationship, like everything in life is multi dimensional – growing always deeper, wider, closer, further…</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· Our relationship and our lives together are cyclic, each with ups and downs and round and rounds; sometimes intersecting, but not always.  Respecting their space and their journey is a sacred duty.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>What should I control?  Or rather, where should I put my effort?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· In the self.  We are selfish beings!  Modern religions and societies have conditioned us to be ‘selfless’, to put others before ourselves, that god is a separate authority male figure that judges our every action including selfishness…This makes us unconsciously shun the self, and we do not even realize how difficult it becomes to disallow ‘others’  comments, judgements, authoritative pronouncements, implicit and  explicit demands and expectations from colouring our own knowledge of  the self.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· We all love to grumble.  When I listened to my complaints about the government, the church, my spouse, my children, and also to other peoples’ non stop complaints, I discovered a pattern. First of all it is usually repetitive; the same words, phrases and grouses.  Secondly, each individual has their own pet complaints.  Thirdly, it serves as a distraction from the self, as the finger is always pointing outwards. I tried an experiment of relating my words, sentences, perhaps in the form of metaphors, similar to the dream technique, to my own condition.  Since we are loth to  face our own unconscious, it is sometimes easier to read into others’  pet grumbles, so I would also look for similar sentences and see it  first in someone else’s situation and then check back to see if it also applied to my own situation.  It is interesting to observe that those sentences, phrases and  metaphors mirrored the exact things that I was dissatisfied with in  myself, but was unable to address consciously.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Example 1:  I was furious at the education system; the way that children were</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">forced to wake up before they are ready to wake up, brush, bathe, dress and eat</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">fast in order to catch the bus or reach school in time; sit still for hours listening</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">to things that are mostly of no interest to them, write copiously, meaninglessly;</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">memorize things for tests and examinations that add quantities of knowledge that</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">some students retain, and others do not, and most may not use….and before they</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">realize it, their whole childhood has been lost. Fun and play is always cut short     by bells or calls for homework and after school tuition.  The littlest children are subjected to this now, for fear of being left ‘behind’ since ‘everybody is doing it’.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">When I looked closely at myself, I was doing the same thing to myself.  Forcing</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">myself awake before I was ready to wake up naturally; even though I haven’t</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">had a job outside the house for the past 15 years, I was always in a rush to ‘get</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">things done’ and more and more things would pile up to get done, and it was</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">always impossible to finish, because, in housework and childcare, there is</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">never an end point where you can say, “Ah! My house is spic and span, I never</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">have to clear the mess again”.  Or, “The children are complete, I don’t have to</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">do a thing”! I was caught up in meaningless tasks that I felt I had to discipline</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">myself to do, keeping up meaningless social relationships for fear of being rude,</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">keeping quantities of things in case I needed them later, but in the end never using</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">any of it for years; writing copious ‘to do’ lists that would never end, and always</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">kept me on edge about when will all this ever get finished…No time for fun, for</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">play, for joyful interaction with the children (that I didn’t send to school so that  we could live and learn in joy together!) No time for introspection, meditation, yoga</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">and breathing.  No time for the people I care about.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">The solution is not ofcourse to neglect the ‘to do’ list.  But then one may ask, how  can one fit in everything one has to do and wants to do and needs to do.  Some of my</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">solutions are already mentioned in the above sections on ‘living and learning  creatively’, ‘perceiving life, situations and actions differently’, ‘opening floodgates of</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">awareness and pinpointing focus’.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Example 2:  I blamed and felt resentment towards my spouse and children.  I</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">would think, “Because of him/them, I am tied down to this house/housework/</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">never ending monotony”. Practicing the same above mentioned solutions my</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">resentment magically evaporated , I experienced health and healing, time opened up, opportunities appeared before me, space increased,  new dimensions were revealed…there is no limit to the possibilities.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">This does not mean that one will never fall back into traps of habit.  When that happens one has to just hop back on the cycle (or rather remember that you are always on it)…eventually it goes up, and if one truly Knows that, one begins to loose the attachment to ‘up’ and the fear of ‘down’.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· The next point is connected to the previous point, and I am beginning to feel the limitations of this linear form of presentation.  (I have already had to refer back.   If anyone prints out this paper to read or share, do stick the papers  end to end forming a ring and read it from anywhere, referring backwards  and forwards!)</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">In a  kind of awareness exercise, I try to test my actions for authenticity.   Am I doing this because I like to, or because I feel it is what I should  be doing. I</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">have  a mental habit of wanting to finish the unsavoury tasks before  embarking on the work I enjoy.  As described earlier, the unsavoury tasks were never ending  – they just went on and on for 12-13 years!  It is important to know  that all things do not have to be done at once; that things postponed  indefinitely <em>can</em> eventually get done, if they are important enough; unimportant things  postponed indefinitely become less and less important till they melt  into nothingness; if you do the work you love to do, or engage with people, situations that you love &#8211; time, space and energy increase…infinite possibilities emerge…your feeling of lightness and joy overflows and begins to infect people around you.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Look  deeply to find out what is keeping us from doing what we are truly meant  to do.  Once we stop blaming our spouses, politicians, bosses, in laws  for keeping us from doing what we love, and find the courage to face  what the real obstacles are, they vanish.  All obstacles are phantoms of our minds, easy to dispel once recognized.  It is simply recognition that takes effort.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>The New Education has to make some bold brave steps:</strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>From objectivity to subjectivity:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">We proudly pronounce our current system as very scientific.  We like to prove everything ‘scientifically’.  Much research is done to prove facts. (For each fact, one can look up the internet for an equal and opposite fact!  This is good, because we don’t ever have to fight with each other about anything any more.  Everything has been proved as true by some and false by others!)  But the proofs are based on the mechanistic model.  Education has not kept pace with the changes in scientific understanding that is coming into alignment with ancient mysticism. A fact is a fact only according to certain criteria, only momentarily in time, only if perceived in a fixed state. We need movement, dynamism, creativity…Changing our world view is imperative.  This information is not really new at all! I don’t know if I need to simplify it as under, but here goes:</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Importance of changing our world view</strong> <strong><em>and living the change</em></strong><strong>:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Mechanistic world view.                                  Quantum/Mystical world view.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· Perceives everything including                    Perceives the entire universe as</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">humans as machines.                                    organic.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Perceives everything as                                Perceives everything as one.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">separate.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Perceives everything as constant                 Perceives everything as dynamic.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">in space and time.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Perceives the observer as                             Perceives an observer as</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">having no influence over the                       inseparable from the observed,</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">observed.                                                      In fact, a ‘separate’ observer</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">influences the observed.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Perceives a fixed reality through                   Perceives infinite possibilities and</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">unending potential that defies our</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">the five senses.  sensory experiences of reality.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>Principles of quantum/mystical method to be applied</strong><strong> in education</strong><strong>:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">Education viewed differently, can be available to all humankind including adult illiterates and children, mentally and physically challenged, rich and poor…By changing our conditioned view of education, learning, choices, and life, we can change our <em>experience </em>of life, education, learning and choices.  Learning is holistic, holographic, simultaneous with everything going on within and without the self. It is rooted in subjective experience.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">There  is not one kind of learner, nor one kind of teacher.  As we discover our  own individual identities, we also discover our oneness with each other  and all of creation.  In this spirit, the new education can manifest.    We discover our ability to create and co-create.  This is no new  concept.  It has been around forever.  It needs to be widely experienced  and the process, accelerated.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong>View education as a creative art – The Creative Art of Education:</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><strong> </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· <strong>Is subjective. </strong>It starts with the self, moves on to ‘the other’, exploring fact <em>and </em>fiction, turning full circle and ending with the self.  Continuing on in ever new circles… Therefore there is no external curriculum, no external judgement, assessment or examination.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· <strong>Is about creativity, play and exploration.</strong> Collection of factual knowledge can be by personal choice of the student, in their area of interest, talent or quest.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· <strong>Challenges the whole self in multidimensional ways.</strong> There is no need to sit for long hours in one place, using the mind in one way, or a pre ordained structured way.</p>
<p style="text-align:left;">· <strong>Pushes every boundary</strong><strong>,</strong> till we as students of all ages, get a glimpse of our own infinite potential, replacing the rather stagnant state of being that predominates today.</p>
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<p style="text-align:left;">There is a beautiful centre of Light in each of us, in each one of you.  Let us close our eyes and visualize this golden truth. Experience your special treasure within…your deep intelligence…your creativity.  Visualize your Light becoming bigger and bigger and expanding till it is larger than your own physical body and it touches someone else’s expanding Light.  Allow our Lights to envelope everyone in this room.  Experience this Oneness in Consciousness.  When you are ready, slowly open your eyes.</p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Written</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in 2009</span><span style="font-size:small;"> for the Indian Psychology conference en</span><span style="font-size:small;">titl</span><span style="font-size:small;">ed The Ideal of Human Unity, </span><span style="font-size:small;">Delhi</span> <span style="font-size:small;">University</span><span style="font-size:small;">. </span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">There  are many paths to learning: One is through academic research and  sharing of findings, one is through reading, listening, debate and  dialogue, one is through experience with awareness, using intuition and  gaining insight.  There are many more, but my current paper falls within  the latter two.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Why am I here?</span></strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">I  am not an academician, but I am an Indian, living the ever dynamic,  overly colourful, widely varied, Indian experience.  I grew up with a  father who constantly indulged in lively discussions on various topics  including personal, national and international growth, change,  creativity, self expression, relationships, compassion, love, religion,  spirituality, the wisdom of ancient India, art, theatre, poetry,  literature…and a mother who was always there for each of us,  anticipating our every need and fulfilling them as best as she could.   She had a cheerful disposition and her brow was seldom clouded.  She  smiled and laughed a lot and trod lightly upon her journey through life. </span><span style="font-size:small;">My brother and I</span><span style="font-size:small;"> listened in fascination to my father, and watched both parents  reviewing their own lives, choices and relationships and working on how  to live better</span><span style="font-size:small;">, trying to maximize the use of</span><span style="font-size:small;"> mind, heart and spirit.  As I grew up, I had friends who discussed  issues of personal and universal interest late into the night.  I  grappled with contradictions and came to terms with apparent paradoxes, I  heard opposing arguments.  I would rarely speak, and wondered at how  very sure each one sounded about their own pet theories and points of  view.  Two decades and more into my life I saw people shift from their  strong, firm positions; some to diluted versions, some to opposite  ideologies.  For example, the fellow who had been a table thumping  Marxist with equal rights for his father’s factory workers, turned into a  practical maximizing profit type capitalist who saw the efficacy of  hierarchy in organization and job creation.  He also found religion!   Whereas others who had given up a life of materialism to serve the poor  continued to serve the poor but felt the need to pursue a comfortable  material standard of living. </span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">There are many lessons I learned from these experiences, relationships and interactions three of which were:</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">That reading, discussing, listening, practicing, reviewing should be a life long, cyclic practice, not just related to college</span><span style="font-size:small;">/academic</span><span style="font-size:small;"> activities.</span></em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">That change is possible,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> desirable</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and inevitable</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">That  ideologies are good for certain purposes, and when the purpose no  longer exists one should keep searching for new ones or even create new  ones for a new purpose.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Now  at the age of forty six I feel that ideologies kept me safe and secure  for long enough.  It is now time to drop all ideology and experience the  deep wide ocean with no boat in sight, no life jacket and no dependence  on god to make it all alright.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">It </span><span style="font-size:small;">is</span><span style="font-size:small;"> all right.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">I hope that the wide definition of Indian psychology can include this paper within its scope!</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">I have a</span><span style="font-size:small;"> new found respect for academicians</span><span style="font-size:small;">,  for all the knowledge I have today has filtered from academics through  authors and creative artists to us lay people.  However, I also feel we  must very soon change from over honouring those with superiour  intellectual capabilities while ignoring those with useful skills  without which it would be intolerable for us to function.  How would we  endure this conference if the plumber hadn’t done a good job, or the  caterer was late, or the seats poked us where we sit?  It is the age old  question, is my liver more important, or my joints?  And my new  question, should children learn verbs or should they play? And a  question that has partly been raised at one of the Indian Psychology  conferences: Should teachers be the highest paid on the planet with  primary teachers being paid the most?</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Where  am I coming from?  What is my angle?  It is my personal opinion that  the future is little children.  That if anything is to change, we have  to change the way we perceive children, the way we treat children and  the way we educate children.  They are </span><span style="font-size:small;">the </span><span style="font-size:small;">most  important creatures on the planet – our saviours, our hope and our  joy!   However, we cannot even begin to understand how to go about this  most difficult task until we embark on a journey of self search, self  discovery and self love.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Indian Psychology tells us that the outer world is a reflection of your inner self.</span></strong><span style="font-size:small;"> Everyone will nod wisely when they hear this.  But if a child were to  ask you “What do you mean?” it could be quite tricky explaining this.   More important than Civics or Math is this kind of knowledge.   Understanding emotion, opening the heart, really understanding the body  with full awareness and knowledge, discovering the inner self… It is so  obvious to us that this is correct.  But how many of us spend time each  day focusing on changing our inner world in order to change our outer  world.  We rant and rave about the system, the powers that be, our in  laws and our spouses.  We had a bad childhood, a sadistic teacher, a  funny uncle.  We advise and counsel others and can see how they can  change their inner worlds but we do not even want to look at our own  bodies, our own minds…it is too painful.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Why can we not love, feel compassion towards our enemies, forgive, feel deep gratitude?</span></strong><span style="font-size:small;"> Because</span><span style="font-size:small;"> we as a society are afraid of L</span><span style="font-size:small;">ove; afraid to become vulnerable; afraid of being perceived as weak before ‘the other’.  But who is that other? </span><span style="font-size:small;">Another part of myself</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  When we were little children</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and b</span><span style="font-size:small;">rimming full of love, our love was</span><span style="font-size:small;">s stifled by fearful adults.  “Do not talk to this one.” “Sit properly.”  “I know it doesn’t make sense, but you have to confor</span><span style="font-size:small;">m.”  And as the little one grew</span><span style="font-size:small;"> up and fell</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in lust, which is indeed budding love: “Don’t get distracted from your  studies.”  “That boy is not from our caste.”  “You are too young.”  All  through life, other things are given precede</span><span style="font-size:small;">nce over Love. Knowing the importance of L</span><span style="font-size:small;">ove  we should trust that harm will not come to our children; that every  experience that comes their way is perfect even though it does not fit  our personal image</span><span style="font-size:small;">/illusion</span><span style="font-size:small;"> of perfection.  When there is a need for guidance, guide with love, not  fear or preconceived notions or half knowledge or social pressure.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">I  opted out (not dropped out) of my academic education after Std XII and  spent much time in a friend’s room with shelves from floor to ceiling  stacked with books.  I come from a family that values education very  highly.  My father has a PhD.  My parents were full of fears but also  full of love.  Love won!  I read more books in that room than I would  ever have done had I been following the very limited Arts curriculum at </span><span style="font-size:small;">Wadia</span> <span style="font-size:small;">College</span><span style="font-size:small;">,  Pune.  In addition I heard discussions between people who were as  highly educated as any of my professors would have been, and who were in  addition, experiencing life out there, testing their academic learning  in real life, serving the poor, running a parish, involved in civil  rights movements, experimental theatre, eco farmin</span><span style="font-size:small;">g (just before ecology became the huge</span><span style="font-size:small;"> issue</span><span style="font-size:small;"> it is today</span><span style="font-size:small;">), </span><span style="font-size:small;">artists, </span><span style="font-size:small;">music</span><span style="font-size:small;">ians, small entrepreneurs,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> college</span><span style="font-size:small;"> teachers</span><span style="font-size:small;">…</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Love leads kindly.  I stepped out of </span><span style="font-size:small;">the</span><span style="font-size:small;"> real world and entered </span><span style="font-size:small;">my</span><span style="font-size:small;"> real world.  (That is when I learned that there is no </span><span style="font-size:small;">real </span><span style="font-size:small;">real  world!) I felt always protected, loved and cared for.  If we so wish,  we can see a world filled with danger, conflict and violence, or we can  see a world full of ‘other part of myself’s.  We can relate to a burglar  with fear, fear induced violence, or like the man who began chatting  with the youth who broke in to his bedroom brandishing a knife.  The man  spent time trying to understand the boy’s problems and offered him a  job.  I read of a girl who was gang raped and went the next day to the  settlement where her rapists came from and asked them, “Is there any way  I can reach out to you that can heal us?”  And the rapists became boys  again, who cried, who asked her forgiveness and brought her gifts.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">My  brother was mystified by school.  His overactive mind drove him to open  up radios, watches and gadgets; his strong active body drove him to  bicycle, swim and play; his free spirit drove him to wander the streets  of Pune befriending rich boys and poor boys, beggar boys and thieves.  His grades w</span><span style="font-size:small;">ere low.  (Brilliant</span><span style="font-size:small;">, curious, friendly, active students will have low grad</span><span style="font-size:small;">es!)</span><span style="font-size:small;"> People shook their heads and said, see what freedom does.  In those  days it was a social disgrace, almost for a boy to take arts.  None of  my </span><span style="font-size:small;">girl </span><span style="font-size:small;">classmates  took arts either.  But my brother went into Philosophy and excelled.   He overcame much hardship on his own, put himself through </span><span style="font-size:small;">London</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Business</span> <span style="font-size:small;">School</span><span style="font-size:small;">, repaid all his student loans in record time and</span><span style="font-size:small;"> now</span><span style="font-size:small;"> leads a materially, physically and </span><span style="font-size:small;">emotionally fulfilled life</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Think  of anything you have done that was perceived of as bad or wrong, and  for which you were blamed, punished or made to feel very low about  yourself.  Did you do that on purpose?  Or did it just happen?  Think  very carefully, for I have been through this exercise with many people  and they all came to the same conclusion, but sometimes it took some  deeper introspection. </span><span style="font-size:small;">It just happened!</span><span style="font-size:small;"> So you cannot blame yourself, have regrets, or allow anyone to make you feel low about yourself. </span><span style="font-size:small;">Similarly, </span><span style="font-size:small;">we  cannot blame others for what they do or try to make them feel low about  themselves, punish them or hate them.  I am talking about Instant  Forgiveness.  Jesus made a powerful statement “Your sins are forgiven”.   Without qualification. He did not exclude the bad guys or make a  distinction between bad guys and good guys.  We are One.  If I am hurt,  you are hurt, or will be soon.  If you are hurt, I will hurt, on  personal, national and international levels.  If I can find it in my  heart to drop my pain, my hurt, my grudges, my guilt…and find that there  is nothing to forgive because ‘it just happened’, then I can see your  hurt and pain sufficiently to relate with compassion. No need for  forgiveness.  There is nothing to forgive. It just happened.  My outer  world will be a reflection of my inner world.  Love yourself.  You can  do no wrong. </span><span style="font-size:small;">You can do no harm.  You are a L</span><span style="font-size:small;">ove filled being.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">It  is not easy to love and forgive.  I don’t know why.  Because once one  has experienced it the relief that washes over one and the light and  energy that is released from the doors that keep opening makes one  wonder, why did I wait so long?  But it isn’t you who took so long.  It  just happens.  This seems like a paradox.  Do I have to work hard at  trying to love and forgive? Or should I just wait for it to happen!</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">This  is the way I resolve the paradox (for Advaita Vedanta is ‘not two’.  In  Oneness there are only perceived opposites): Someone has the urge to  tell everyone to focus on love, on oneness.  They bring forth proof of  all the benefits of healed bodies, healed relationships, and a healed  world.  Others hear this and start focusing on love, deepening  introspection, understanding their hearts, minds and bodies.  Still  others feel the difference in these people’s lives, health and modes of  relating to people, situations and things…So it just happens that I  speak here and you listen.  It just happens that some of you go away  determined to focus on opening your hearts.  Some continue, some don’t.   Then a book or person or situation rekindles the desire to know  yourself, to open your heart and love fearlessly.  And the cycle  continues.  The only real work is stating the intention powerfully to  oneself: the desire to open oneself to love.  Then I don’t have to  worry, and you don’t have to worry.  It will just happen.  The time has  come!</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Why do people who have all the knowledge shy away from open practice of Indian Psychology?</span></strong><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Social forces are stronger than we re</span><span style="font-size:small;">alize; our fear of being ostracized</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and our great need for approval.  We don’t want to lose our image of  ourselves, we don’t want to fall in others’ eyes, we don’t want to lose  the respect we have worked so hard to earn. We are too afraid of veering  away from the norm, and we are constantly kept feeling good when we are  able to perform well according to society’s norms, even when they are  sometimes irrelevant, meaningless or outdated.  Isn’t that a bit like a  circus animal performing for goodies?  I ask that we all have the  courage to get behind what we believe in our hearts is the truth, and  stand firm against our near and dear ones, our loved ones, our bosses,  our elders and  all of society </span><span style="font-size:small;">and encourage each other to do the same</span><span style="font-size:small;">.   If we support each other, then we will not be alone.  Work with the  people closest to you.  Heal your closest relationships: With your  spouse, your parents, your children and your in laws. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> Most of </span><span style="font-size:small;">our untapped power is scattered</span><span style="font-size:small;"> by negativity surrounding our</span><span style="font-size:small;"> closest relationships. </span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">I  was ostracized by friends, family friends and relatives at the age of  16 when I fell in love with someone perceived as inappropriate by them,  and for dropping my academic education.  I continue to live a life  outside of society, not sending my children to school, and encouraging  my husband to leave his profession in order to live a more meaningful  life.  People with school going children stay far away from us, my  husband’s colleagues find me very strange, to say the le</span><span style="font-size:small;">ast, but we live </span><span style="font-size:small;">much</span><span style="font-size:small;"> fulfilled</span><span style="font-size:small;"> lives.  I lend a patient ear to many people who wish to live life differently and encourage them to leap out in faith. </span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">My  husband was a highly successful and respected dental surgeon.  He felt  the urge to express his creativity, to embark on a journey of self  search and to spend more relaxed time with the family.  Over a period of  three years he struggled internally and externally to make this  possible and was able to leave his profession at its peak, and the peak  of his working years at the age of forty six.  When one hears the story  about someone else, one can just wonder for a moment and forget about  it.  When one is living with the person closest to you going through  these formidable emotions, choices and changes, it is another thing  altogether.  And what is the hardest thing in all this?  “Other  people”.  Please let us as a human race really, really understand that  we are not ‘other people’, there are no ‘other people’.  We are One.   Let us support each other in our </span><span style="font-size:small;">collective </span><span style="font-size:small;">unfo</span><span style="font-size:small;">lding,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> rather than bring each other down.  If someone wants to love, let him  love, if someone wants to paint, let her paint, if someone wants to  dance, let him dance…Instead of judging and losing respect for each  other, let us respect and accept each other more and more and more!</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">And  what happens when the heart opens and you love your irritating spouse,  your misguided parent, your difficult teenager?  They transform.  Your  spouse no longer nags, your parent becomes your friend, and your  teenager realizes your wisdom.  Do </span><span style="font-size:small;">they </span><span style="font-size:small;">transform?  Or is it your outer world reflecting your inner world?  Do </span><span style="font-size:small;">they </span><span style="font-size:small;">change  or do you all realize that you are cut from the same cloth, feel the  same breeze, see the same stars, experience One Love.  We all merge with  the Divine.  We </span><span style="font-size:small;">are </span><span style="font-size:small;">Divine.  There is no </span><span style="font-size:small;">they. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> Can you already</span><span style="font-size:small;"> feel the power of your L</span><span style="font-size:small;">ove transforming the world?</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Simply love and understand yours</span><span style="font-size:small;">elf and the illusion of diversity in the universe melts giving way to the experience of Oneness </span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:small;">My experience with Unconditional Love, Forgiveness and Mindfulness.</span></strong></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">There is a wonderful elder who marched with Martin </span><span style="font-size:small;">Luther King though he is a caucasian</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Christian pastor.  He also walks mindfully beside Thich Nhat Hanh on  occasion and has embraced Buddhism in addition to Christianity because  of the </span><span style="font-size:small;">US</span><span style="font-size:small;">’s operation in </span><span style="font-size:small;">Vietnam</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  He once told me with a twinkle in his eye, “Don’t be surprised if I embrace Islam, now, too!” </span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Charles Al Lingo Jr. teaches a course in Unconditional Love and Forgiveness.  He recently added Mindfulne</span><span style="font-size:small;">ss. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> I will not get into </span><span style="font-size:small;">too many details </span><span style="font-size:small;">here.  I wish to only share the personal miracle that I experienced.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">For  those of you who have ever had the misfortune to stop relating with the  person dearest to you in life, you will understand how difficult it is  to start re connecting again.  In most cases it is impossible.  Well, I  shared a very close relationship with my very loving father.  He spoke  to me long hours</span><span style="font-size:small;">,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> of this and that</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  He is a knowledgeable man</span><span style="font-size:small;">,  and knows (according to me!) everything about everything.  When I was a  teenager, I got busy with my friends, school and after school tuitions,  and he got busier with his work and career, spending more and more time  outside the home.  By the time I fell in love and wanted to leave home,  the thought did not occur to me that my relationship with the family  hung by a thread.  I got married and never thought of my family again.  I  didn’t think they cared either.  I was so wrong!  The good part is that  I found myself as an individual.  I forged a life of my own based on my  own beliefs.  I made beautiful friends and had wonderful experiences.  I  fell in love with life and never once looked back.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">Over  ten years later, when I returned to Pune, and gave birth to my first  child, I started to appreciate my parents and brother and felt that I  had lost something very precious.  I felt hurt, abandoned and angry.   This built an invisible wall between me and them.  My mother managed to  dexterously jump that wall and became a close part of my life.  With my  father and brother it took time.  The catalyst was the forgiveness  course. </span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">One  should not mistake forgiveness as something in which one party wrongs  another and therefore one has to be magnanimous and forgive.  Above I  explained my new insight that ‘life happens’.  (I say ‘insight’ because  many of us may know it in our heads or accept it as a truth, but by  ‘insight’ I mean that I feel and understand the truth from within.)   Paradoxically, however, one has to go through the process in order to  heal.  In this forgiveness, one goes through a </span><span style="font-size:small;">mental</span><span style="font-size:small;"> explanation of who you wish to forgive and why.  Then one goes through an </span><span style="font-size:small;">emotional</span><span style="font-size:small;"> outpouring of how one would have wished it to have been, and what one  is hurt and angry about.  The facilitator then helps one use the same  words but this time </span><span style="font-size:small;">physically </span><span style="font-size:small;">with the fist hitting the palm of the other hand canceling out all expectations and demands of the person </span><span style="font-size:small;">or persons one is hurt by or angry at</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  After all, we know that </span><span style="font-size:small;">they </span><span style="font-size:small;">have  not actually hurt you, abandoned you or whatever.  It all just happened  the way it did.  During this process, I started realizing how silly and  unreasonable my demands and expectations were of how it should have  been, when actually it all worked out perfectly for each of us!  In the  next step, the whole group who surrounds the forgiver in a circle, goes  up to Higher Consciousness and so do the forgiver and the facilitator,  and the facilitator expresses in words that form a sort of prayer for  release from the feelings of anger, hurt or hatred.  That is the </span><span style="font-size:small;">spiritual </span><span style="font-size:small;">part  of the process.  He then asks the forgiver to say if he or she feels a  sensation in any part of the body.  Also, the forgiver has to say  something especially nice about the person, persons or institution that  they have just forgiven.  I cried when an abused wife who a few moments  ago had been sobbing and ranting against her husband found these words  burst from her lips, “He’s an angel”!</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">My relati</span><span style="font-size:small;">onship with my family of origin</span><span style="font-size:small;"> has been becoming more and more beautiful since then.  Each member is  so full of love and understanding; so light hearted and humorous; so  clever and full of wise counsel.  But something still niggled.  And I  recently underwent another course which revealed the part of the process  which was missing.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:small;">My experience with Oneness Breakthru.</span></strong></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">At the beginning </span><span style="font-size:small;">of the year, my husband John,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> daughter Sahya</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and mother</span><span style="font-size:small;"> sit down to write our intentions for the year.  Every year I write so  many, and never seem to complete too many of them.  (My husband</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and mother, on the other hand, look</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in wonder at the </span><span style="font-size:small;">end of the year at their</span><span style="font-size:small;"> list</span><span style="font-size:small;">s and find that even though the</span><span style="font-size:small;"> mind was not focused on them, they are all miraculously done!)  This  year I decided to be concise.  Two things on my list were: Experience  even more closeness with my loved ones, and I wrote each name linked  with mine in a heart!  The other was to experience Oneness.  In May, my  mother’s friend told me about this mind blowing course coming to Pune  called Breakthru, run by the </span><span style="font-size:small;">Oneness</span> <span style="font-size:small;">University</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in Andhra Pradesh.  She said that since we are an unschooling family  and believe in close family relationships, understanding emotions etc.  it would be just the thing for me.  I knew I would go.  That the  children would be cared for and everything would work out.  To me, the  brochure seemed fake and material oriented.  Bhagwan and Amma on Astha  channel on Sunday at 9.30pm seemed even more fake though he spoke well.   But I was beyond caring.  This was going to be something, I thought,  with the focus on healing closest relationships, emotion and  experiencing oneness.  Plus there is a Deeksha blessing in the end that  helps break patterns embedded in the brain!</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">To  cut a long story short, during the programme, I realized that I had  ‘forgiven’ my family of origin, but I had not considered how </span><span style="font-size:small;">I </span><span style="font-size:small;">had hurt </span><span style="font-size:small;">them</span><span style="font-size:small;">.   It is not a question of blame.  It happened that I just left the house  and did not turn back for over a decade, and it happened that it caused  heart break, I had caused heart break, my leaving caused heart break and  heart break has to be healed.  I knew that I was loved, but I had never  once expressed my love and deep gratitude to my family.  I tell</span><span style="font-size:small;"> you, when your heart opens to L</span><span style="font-size:small;">ove,  there are infinite depths to discover.  It is an adventure like no  other.  Physical pain drops away.  Mental strain drops away. Emotions  settle.  Finances settle.  Healing happens on many levels.  Many years  ago I had written a letter to my brother detailing the pain I had caused  him, and saying how much I loved him. </span><span style="font-size:small;">After the Oneness course</span><span style="font-size:small;"> I returned</span><span style="font-size:small;"> home</span><span style="font-size:small;"> a</span><span style="font-size:small;">nd my darling mother was there</span><span style="font-size:small;"> looking after my children so I could attend the course.  She has always  been there for me, and continues to be so.  That, for me, is the  meaning of mother.  I have taken her for granted for too long.  I used  to feel very awkward to embrace her for some years.  Now I was able </span><span style="font-size:small;">not only </span><span style="font-size:small;">to embrace her </span><span style="font-size:small;">but clearly</span><span style="font-size:small;"> express my gratitude and love.  A few days later I visited my father  and asked his forgiveness for breaking his heart.  He held me close and  said that there is no personal doership.  There is nothing to forgive.   The cycle was complete, and I felt at peace.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">On  the one hand there is no personal doership, it just happens.  On the  other hand there is the concept of taking personal responsibility.   Again, this is only a perceived paradox.  I once read a brilliant German  writer who said that all Germans, even in the present time must take  responsibility for Hitler’s acts.  I would like to push this further and  say that all humankind must take responsibility for Hitler’s acts.  If  we are one, then we are also Hitler.  As in the story of the girl  reaching out to the boys who had raped her, </span><span style="font-size:small;">she </span><span style="font-size:small;">took  responsibility in oneness, and there was healing.  Have our jails cured  our criminals?  Has war solved any thing?  Has the war on terror  decreased the number of terrorists or the intensity of the attacks?   Does a goody goody self righteous one side ever touch the other side?  The ‘bad guys’ are the hurting side of our own nature.  Their pain  automatically turns them into what they are.  We have to embrace them  deep into our hearts and become one in order to be complete and heal.   Try this first with someone who is really difficult to deal with in your  personal life.  Once you experience the liberation and healing, the  ball will start rolling and there will be no stopping the power  unleashed.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:small;">While talking about love, one cannot ignore the area of sexuality.</span></strong></em></p>
<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">The  best way to control masses of people is to make them miserable.  The  best way to keep people miserable is take away one of their strongest  motives to love and be loved.  And so the powers that be made sex  taboo.  My mother once told me that there is a tribe somewhere where  food is scarce so food is taboo and sex is as free as food is in  societies where food is available in plenty.  In the West and some parts  of the East where sex for various reasons became free, in some cases  through revolution, many went over board and the situation became  unhealthily polarized with perverts on one side and the prudish ones on  the other.  Polarization causes vicious cycles and exponential increases  on both sides.  The good news is that in the middle we have liberated  thinkers, people living alternate and peaceful lifestyles, people whose  hearts have opened and they are turning to spirituality including  turning Eastward for spiritual direction.  The problem, I feel, maybe  that the revolution of sexuality like many things in the West was taken  up in isolation, instead of holistically. </span><span style="font-size:small;">India</span><span style="font-size:small;"> has ancient but forgotten traditions of sexuality where mind, body and  spirit become one.  Sexuality, like everything else, has divinity and  creativity, Divine Creativity at its core.  When we forget that and make  it either dirty or antiseptic and separate from the rest of life, we  are bound to land in trouble.  Let </span><span style="font-size:small;">India</span><span style="font-size:small;"> lead a quiet holistic sexual-spiritual revolution.  There will be much  relaxation, masti, laughter and lightness, and the beautiful children  that will be born of the union between our sexually free sons and  daughters will each be a miracle indeed!</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><strong><span style="font-size:small;">The key to future peace</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;"> and unification</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;"> is Happy Children.</span></strong></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">The  Industrial Age needed children to become knowledgeable in the  sciences.  The Information Age has made knowledge collection user  friendly, freely and widely available to those who have basic literacy  skills and access to the world wide web.  Some spiritual teachers like  Osho and Bhagvan of the </span><span style="font-size:small;">Oneness</span> <span style="font-size:small;">University</span><span style="font-size:small;"> say that in 2012 we will be moving into the Golden Age, at the same  time politicians, activists and scientists say we have ten years to  reverse our way of life or face complete disaster and destruction.  How  do we resolve this paradox?  According to me, it is by raising happy  children.  Let the children play.  Give them charge of their lives and  our world.  Let them keep their sense of power and belief that they can  do anything.  Let them keep their mischief and good humour.  Do not  judge or diminish their creations.  Allow their emotions to flow  unchecked.  Let them love everyone and everything without fear.  Do not  differentiate bad and good</span><span style="font-size:small;"> which manifests guilt feelings</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Guilt feelings</span><span style="font-size:small;"> according to me,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> are the most debilitating emotions that make people easy to manipulate.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Teach acceptance by being accepting.  Teach forgiveness by practicing  instant forgiveness (after all, nobody did anything on purpose, it just  happened!)  Happy Children are the hope for the future.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">The  importance of stopping our judgments towards everything but especially  children and the child within ourselves, the judgment that separates one  from the other, (which is part of ourselves), is the resulting feeling  of oneness, and immediately the non separateness of ourselves and the  divine.  All relationships will feel the divinity within you touching  the divinity of the other: man, woman, child, living creatures and  inanimate nature.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">For  those of you who haven’t heard of Homeschooling, there are families  around the globe who do not send their children to school but teach them  at home, creatively and playfully, with love and no judgment.  Further,  there are families like mine who do not even teach their children, but  allow them full freedom in every way and in everything, in full faith  and trust.  This is sometimes termed as Unschooling, and parents feel  that they themselves are in need of unschooling or deschooling before  they even try to raise children or teach them anything.  These families  question every norm and find most of them outdated and irrelevant for  our times.  They raise their children outside of society without  threatening society in any way.  It is the most silent and beautiful  revolution in history; children’s freedom protected by their own parents  and well wishers.  Imagine if </span><span style="font-size:small;">happiness</span><span style="font-size:small;"> is hardwired by neuro peptides repeatedly locking into the appropriate  receptors in the brain.  (Book: Molecules of Emotion – Candice Pert.   Film: What the Bleep do we Know). These children </span><span style="font-size:small;">have </span><span style="font-size:small;">to  grow up into happy adults.  They will have no option!  Happy people  just cannot make others unhappy…can you see the chain reaction already.   Reversible in ten years for sure.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:left;"><em><span style="font-size:small;">And  how can children be happy? All parents cannot unschool.   Society has  to pay teachers the highest salaries.  Teachers should qualify on the  basis of love for children, high levels of emotional capacity, humour  and creativity, the ability to play with children and resolve  interaction problems creatively rather than by pulling authority.   Children will do what they want, when they want, how they want, and  there will be many adults to serve and assist them, not just one teacher  per 5 – 80 students.  There have been enough experiments to show that  children </span><span style="font-size:small;">do </span><span style="font-size:small;">learn in freedom.  The Little Democracy-Denmark (1960s), Summerhill, A.S Neil – </span><span style="font-size:small;">UK</span><span style="font-size:small;">(1960s),  John Holt-USA(1970s-90s) and over a million unschooling families around  the globe will testify to this.  They may not learn the curriculum  prescribed by persons far removed from their reality, but they will  follow their own internal curriculum &#8211; time, stage and pace perfect.   They will ask questions and not be asked or tested, because their  knowledge and level is their own personal business not any one else’s  any more.  The children born into this age are far superiour to us in  every way, (Indigo children) and it is time we put our egos and fears  aside and recognize them for the superiour beings that they are.  They  have the power. Let them keep it.  Put their happiness and freedom as  the highest priority, politically, ecologically, socially…According to  me</span><span style="font-size:small;">, this is the way of the future: Love children, Love the child in You.</span></em></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="font-size:small;">Towards a New Education </span></span></strong></p>
<p style="text-align:center;"><strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><span style="font-size:small;">The journey continues…</span></span></strong></p>
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<p style="text-align:center;"><span style="font-size:small;">Written in 2007 for the conference entitled Indian Psychology Theory and Models, Bengaluru.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Introduction:</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">When I  first put my ideas together for a paper entitled Towards a New  Education, I had described some of our family home education  experiences, and went on to outline many options and alternative ideas  of ways to pursue education as an individual, group, teacher or student  of any age, on an ongoing basis.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> The conference itself was a tremendous learning experience for me.   Never before had I shared a space with so many learned people</span><span style="font-size:small;"> sharing such deep and ancient knowledge, covering vast areas of human  experience.  And the venue, if I may use such an ordinary term for such a  hallowed place, where Sri Aurobindo and The M</span><span style="font-size:small;">other lived and loved and taught, touched something in the centre of my being that changed the way I lived, loved and learned.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> In this paper I will attempt to share a bit of my journey, my understanding</span><span style="font-size:small;">,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and my hope for the future of education.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> This is a completely subjective paper.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Opening the floodgates of awareness and pinpointing focus:</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">In everyone’s journey, there are certain people, books, situations or experiences that suddenly or gra</span><span style="font-size:small;">dually sharpen the senses, open</span><span style="font-size:small;"> up the mind</span><span style="font-size:small;">, transport</span><span style="font-size:small;"> us</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> alternate space</span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;"> where our old perception</span><span style="font-size:small;">s disintegrate and a new awareness floods our being.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Some of us experience the wonder of </span><span style="font-size:small;">the moment but then allow it to slip</span><span style="font-size:small;"> back in time, further and further till it even leaves the realm of our memory.  Some of us may hold</span><span style="font-size:small;"> on to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> it till we find it too hard to live the life we are used to while experiencing ‘the alternate’, and</span><span style="font-size:small;"> almost without realizing it, ‘the alternate’</span><span style="font-size:small;"> slips into the past, leaving behind only perhaps a wistful memory.   Some of us make a change.  We put a great burst of energy into stepping  into a new reality.  It may take a lot out o</span><span style="font-size:small;">f us, but it is worth it.  P</span><span style="font-size:small;">erhaps it makes us so tired, that we never at</span><span style="font-size:small;">tempt  any such thing ever again, and soon we become comfortable and begin to  stagnate.  One day we wonder why the Great Change didn’t have any  lasting effect.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">This paper deals with some practical aspects of living in the world while learning creatively, perhaps transcendently. </span><span style="font-size:small;">I would like to share certain experi</span><span style="font-size:small;">ences during</span><span style="font-size:small;"> the last two decades</span><span style="font-size:small;"> that opened the floodgates of awareness and helped me pinpoint focus.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">People:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">I</span><span style="font-size:small;">t would be impossible</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to make a comprehensive list of my ‘teachers’, because I consider all  my relationships as teaching-learning: My family, extended family,  friends, house helps.  Even people whom I approach casually, or who may  approach me, bring new learning to my process.  But there are certain  people who can frame a question that sets off a train of thought, or  open up a series of ideas, or make me sharp and focused. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> There are certain ongoing relationships </span><span style="font-size:small;">especially with those closest to me – my spouse and children</span><span style="font-size:small;">, my parents, brother, in laws and friends</span><span style="font-size:small;"> &#8211; </span><span style="font-size:small;">that refuse to stagnate and keep progressing, pushing boundaries, insisting on higher levels of thinking and being.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">For  example, during a heated discussion, my husband insists that we set our  own standards and do not make comparisons with others.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> We do not pattern our lives remotely like anyone else</span><span style="font-size:small;">’s</span><span style="font-size:small;">, but </span><span style="font-size:small;">rather clear our own paths through the undergrowth.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> It can sometimes take a great amount of energy, and it can also be very uplifting and energizing.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Books:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">The  same can be said of books, music, works of art…So many have been  invaluable and added dimensions to my experience that go beyond words.   And miraculously, there have been</span><span style="font-size:small;"> books that have come to me at the right time, almost as if something in me called to it, and it appeared on cue.  I’m sure many</span><span style="font-size:small;">, if not all</span><span style="font-size:small;"> of yo</span><span style="font-size:small;">u have had these experiences.  Perhaps it is time</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to take cogn</span><span style="font-size:small;">izance of these experiences and make them the </span><span style="font-size:small;">base for</span><span style="font-size:small;"> our higher learning</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;"> Many people have exclaimed in wonder </span><span style="font-size:small;">about </span><span style="font-size:small;">how they opened a book randomly, and the contents of the page were an answer to something they’d been puzzling over.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> I have a friend who sometimes has terrible fears and doubts about  homeschooling her children.  The day she decides she is going to put  them back in school, she opens the newspapers and finds some unusual  horror story about school!</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">The focused awareness that sometimes occurs when experiencing the arts in their most beautiful form is somewhat less tangible.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> One could be the artiste or the observer.  But these are not the</span><span style="font-size:small;"> only ways to experience art.  Older communiti</span><span style="font-size:small;">es</span><span style="font-size:small;">,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> including the ones that remain relatively unchanged</span><span style="font-size:small;"> till t</span><span style="font-size:small;">oday</span><span style="font-size:small;">, have </span><span style="font-size:small;">taught us that everyone can be a participan</span><span style="font-size:small;">t in art.  They</span><span style="font-size:small;"> decorate th</span><span style="font-size:small;">eir homes and bodies</span><span style="font-size:small;">, </span><span style="font-size:small;">they </span><span style="font-size:small;">tell stories,</span> <span style="font-size:small;">dance or act out scenes in traditional forms. </span><span style="font-size:small;">They make </span><span style="font-size:small;">their own </span><span style="font-size:small;">colours and paint on walls, barks or stones.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Today, more and more so called non artistes are gathering</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to participate in any form of artistic expression: a community drum circle, a family theatre workshop, a group of friends play</span><span style="font-size:small;"> music and paint, or move to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> music or do clay modeling or origami together.  Anyone can organize participato</span><span style="font-size:small;">ry art anywhere, with anyone.  For this purpose t</span><span style="font-size:small;">here is no need of a teacher, expertise, or learning of skills.  This is intangible, experiential learning at a deeper level.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Something deep within you awake</span><span style="font-size:small;">n</span><span style="font-size:small;">s and finds expression. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> Inexplicable yearnings experience fulfi</span><span style="font-size:small;">l</span><span style="font-size:small;">lment</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Experiences:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Certain experiences</span> <span style="font-size:small;">in my life </span><span style="font-size:small;">were a direct result of individuals who put their</span><span style="font-size:small;"> very special </span><span style="font-size:small;">personal </span><span style="font-size:small;">energy  into creating a framework within which people can learn about the self,  by creating spaces, techniques, methods and modules and infusing it  with their love</span><span style="font-size:small;">, in order</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to help people come closer to their inner being and touch the light.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> I would like to give a brief description of each, and request others to  share with me the names of people, books, arts and experiences that  have helped them.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> I must add here, that what is right for me appears before me, and what  is right for each of you, appears before you.  The description</span><span style="font-size:small;">s that follow</span><span style="font-size:small;"> are</span><span style="font-size:small;"> only to act as pointers as to the elements</span><span style="font-size:small;"> which could help people</span><span style="font-size:small;"> ident</span><span style="font-size:small;">ify what could be beneficial</span><span style="font-size:small;">, </span><span style="font-size:small;">or </span><span style="font-size:small;">to </span><span style="font-size:small;">recognize what has helped</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in the past </span><span style="font-size:small;">so </span><span style="font-size:small;">that one</span><span style="font-size:small;"> can mentally refer back to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> the experience</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in order to h</span><span style="font-size:small;">elp in one’s</span><span style="font-size:small;"> personal search or inner journey</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and higher learning</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Mirambika:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">In my  mid-twenties I was guided to mirambika by two completely different  friends, who inhabited two different worlds!  In the Sri Aurobindo  Ashram grounds itself I </span><span style="font-size:small;">marveled  at how each of the schools there was a completely different world unto  itself.  If I ever lived in multiple worlds simultaneously, it was  during my four years teaching in</span><span style="font-size:small;"> the three schools and dining at</span><span style="font-size:small;"> the ashram daily.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Mirambika  was designed as an inside-outside space.  When inside, you could feel  that you were outside because instead of outer walls there are </span><span style="font-size:small;">tall </span><span style="font-size:small;">glass windows, and </span><span style="font-size:small;">on the inner side </span><span style="font-size:small;">each  segment has a verandah circling an inner garden.  When you are out in  one of the inner gardens, you are also ‘inside’ one of the schools  segments!  There are many other unique architectural features for</span><span style="font-size:small;"> which a visit is recommended for</span><span style="font-size:small;"> those who are interested.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">I cannot précis mirambika into a small paragraph</span><span style="font-size:small;">, so I will </span><span style="font-size:small;">attempt to </span><span style="font-size:small;">put </span><span style="font-size:small;">a few of </span><span style="font-size:small;">the </span><span style="font-size:small;">main ideas across</span><span style="font-size:small;">, under two headings: Free Progress, and Integral Education. </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Free Progress: </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">There is no external curriculum, test or exam</span><span style="font-size:small;"> set by ‘others’</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  Children introspect on Fridays and</span><span style="font-size:small;"> choose</span><span style="font-size:small;"> a topic </span><span style="font-size:small;">to work on, </span><span style="font-size:small;">and  whether they will work individually or in a group. They discuss it with  each other and the Didi or Bhaiya who has been assigned to their group  for the year</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and make a broad plan</span><span style="font-size:small;">. On Saturdays, the Didi or Bhaiya</span><span style="font-size:small;"> (Diyas)</span><span style="font-size:small;"> spend time planning how to help the children attain their goal</span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;"> using all the resources available in the library, science lab, art and  crafts room, music room, drama props and even out and around the ashram  grounds.  If necessary, the work can be carried out beyond the grounds  in the form of a field trip or exploration.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> At the end of the topic, the children make a presentation.  Children are completely free in their choice of topic, with who</span><span style="font-size:small;">m</span><span style="font-size:small;"> they will work or not work, how they will carry out their plan, and the manner in which the end of topic presentation is </span><span style="font-size:small;">made.  Diyas and other children in the group</span><span style="font-size:small;"> provide help, support, suggestions and feedback.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Integral</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Education</span><span style="font-size:small;">: </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">The </span><span style="font-size:small;">whole child and the Diyas</span><span style="font-size:small;">, participate in the education process.  There is time and space</span> <span style="font-size:small;">planned into the framework </span><span style="font-size:small;">for working on the spiritual, emotional, physical and mental being. </span><span style="font-size:small;">The children do not sit in one place or even in one room. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> They use their whole bodies including</span><span style="font-size:small;"> all five senses continuously. </span><span style="font-size:small;">There is as much ti</span><span style="font-size:small;">me spent in meditation, silence and</span><span style="font-size:small;"> introspection as in sports and physical activity, in arts, crafts,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> cooking, experiments,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> drama and music as in discussing interpersonal issues and p</span><span style="font-size:small;">roblem solving, as in academics -</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Diyas and chil</span><span style="font-size:small;">dren alike. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> I learned and grew in all these areas as much as any child who attended  the school.  There was never a feeling of authority from any adult.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> If something of authority had to be expressed, it could even emerge from the mouth of a child! </span><span style="font-size:small;">When the class is getting rowdy, it is not uncommon for a child to get fed up and say, </span><span style="font-size:small;">“Didi, I don’t think we should waste time ar</span><span style="font-size:small;">guing, we better start focusing”,  b</span><span style="font-size:small;">ecause they feel equal responsibility for their </span><span style="font-size:small;">time, their </span><span style="font-size:small;">chosen topic or activity.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">On Saturday mornings, Diyas would gather together to meditate and discuss overall pla</span><span style="font-size:small;">ns for the week and any issues of general interest and importance.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">So to  me, ‘integral’ means the whole child, all the people, the whole space  and environment.  Each group was responsible for maintaining their </span><span style="font-size:small;">own classroom</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and each group took a turn caring for some other part of the school.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">At the  end of the year there would be a Thanksgiving gathering to which all  the parents were invited.  There would be activities organized by the  children and Diyas</span><span style="font-size:small;">,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in </span><span style="font-size:small;">some of </span><span style="font-size:small;">which  the parents could participate.  Children would also create performances  complete with costumes and props, music and movement.  After a stage  performance, I have always noticed a subtle ‘growing up’ kind of</span><span style="font-size:small;"> change that occurs in children; they mature.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">Creative t</span><span style="font-size:small;">heatrical presentations are dynamic, challenging many parts of the being to open up and find expression.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">The gratitude I felt for the</span><span style="font-size:small;"> past</span><span style="font-size:small;"> year on Thanksgiving Day used to make me feel like I was lifted </span><span style="font-size:small;">gently by</span><span style="font-size:small;"> a beam of l</span><span style="font-size:small;">ight, and that my bod</span><span style="font-size:small;">y was as light as air…I would return</span><span style="font-size:small;"> home feeling energized!</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Dreamwork:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">My  father, among many other things, is also a renowned dream therapist.  He  uses many techniques to help the dreamer understand what they are  telling themselves through their</span><span style="font-size:small;"> own</span><span style="font-size:small;"> dreams.  O</span><span style="font-size:small;">nly the dreamer can decipher their own dream </span><span style="font-size:small;">metaphor</span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;">.   For example, one person thought a lamb was the stupidest creature on  earth, whereas to the dreamer, it was the cutest, soft, cuddly,  creature!</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Dreams may reveal something of the past, present or future. </span><span style="font-size:small;">One dream metaphor can hold the past, present and future within it with surprising clarity. </span><span style="font-size:small;">People, situations or things may represent some other person</span><span style="font-size:small;">, concept or message. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">The  Mother once related an interesting example of a pre cognitive dream:  A  French salesman dreamt that his body was in a coffin in an elevator, and  a man in uniform was pointing at him.  The next morning, approaching  the elevator, he was reminded of his dream when the uniformed elevator  man pointed him towards the elevator which was quite full of people.   The salesman swiftly chose the stairs.  The elevator</span><span style="font-size:small;"> crashed leaving no survivors! </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">A skilled therapist will not pro</span><span style="font-size:small;">ject meanings, but will help </span><span style="font-size:small;">dreamer</span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;"> uncover and discover the</span><span style="font-size:small;">ir own</span><span style="font-size:small;"> unconscious mind</span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">I am no </span><span style="font-size:small;">expert, so I cannot</span><span style="font-size:small;"> discuss the four sleep states or the realms of th</span><span style="font-size:small;">e </span><span style="font-size:small;">unconscious </span><span style="font-size:small;">mind, but I would like to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> share that continual practice in recalling dreams</span><span style="font-size:small;">, and unraveling their mysteries, and knowin</span><span style="font-size:small;">g about Shushupti</span><span style="font-size:small;">, t</span><span style="font-size:small;">he dreamless</span><span style="font-size:small;"> state in which</span><span style="font-size:small;"> each of us becomes one with the Source or Consiousness</span><span style="font-size:small;"> every sin</span><span style="font-size:small;">gle night, is an ongoing</span><span style="font-size:small;"> process</span><span style="font-size:small;"> where bits o</span><span style="font-size:small;">f magic and mystery are revealed</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Arts Based T</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;">herapies:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Annually, I </span><span style="font-size:small;">used to </span><span style="font-size:small;">attend  a workshop that uses language, poetry, theatre, sound, movement, drums  and rhythm, colour and painting, story telling and nature to help break  through our normal patterns of being and gain a deeper understanding of  who we are and what we are meant to be and do.  Through their games and  techniques we find ourselves suddenly confronted with what is  meaningless or restrictive in our lives, and how we can overcome these  unnecessary hurdles.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Perhaps some people know this, but it was a revelation to me that art  is not only a means of expression, but also of self discovery</span><span style="font-size:small;">, </span><span style="font-size:small;">higher learning, </span><span style="font-size:small;">healing</span><span style="font-size:small;">,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> inner</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and outer</span><span style="font-size:small;"> development.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Forgiveness:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">I was rather unsure of what ‘unconditional love and forgiveness’ is all about, and was amazed </span><span style="font-size:small;">to learn </span><span style="font-size:small;">that  the ancient Essenes who spoke Aramaic, the root language for some of  the worlds modern religions, used words that have been distorted when  deciphered by religious leaders with vested interests.  For example my  school girl understanding of the word discipline would be to bend my  will to that of the authorities.  The original Aramaic word has been  explained as ‘use of reason and sensitivity to natural co</span><span style="font-size:small;">n</span><span style="font-size:small;">sequences in an effort to establish desirable goals</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and behavior</span><span style="font-size:small;">’</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Disease – The result of lack of harmony in an individual, due to the individual’s blocking love and the flow of Naphsha’s</span><span style="font-size:small;">*</span><span style="font-size:small;"> energy.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">*Naphsha:  Soul, Higher Self, essence, the ‘breath of life.’ Every person has a  Naphsha, and is a Naphsha by virtue of existence.  Naphsha cannot be  destroyed; it is the controlling core, the organizing center of energy,  the managing agent, the source of mental, physical, emotional, and  spiritual development, the Naphsha is the source of serenity, harmony,  wisdom, forgiveness and healing; it is in contact with universal laws  and the laws of the individual’s being.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Failure:  Lack of achievement of a goal; the result of error; a means by which we learn.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Forgive  (Shbag): To cancel demands and expectations one makes on the Source,  others and the self as a condition for expressing love and other  positive attitudes.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Gratitude:  A transpersonal quality which can change our attitudes and elevate our  consciousness; a feeling of joyful appreciation for the good in self,  others, and the environment.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Humility:  (Makikh): an attitude which enables us to see the needs of others as  they see them or will see them, and a desire to fulfill those needs, if  practical.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Edith  Stauffer Ph.D. has combined the code of conduct of the Essenes,  painstakingly rendered into appropriate English by Sadook de Mar Shimun;  and psychosynthesis, a holistic, transpersonal psychology created by    Roberto Assagioli, MD</span><span style="font-size:small;">, and created ways to raise consciousness above the illusion most of us experience, to help us</span><span style="font-size:small;"> through simple practical exercises to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> release the hate, anger and resentment through forgiveness and  unconditional love, and increase personal health and universal harmony.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">I went  through a deep forgiveness, releasing feelings of anger and resentment I  held for years.  The people against whom I felt these feelings were not  even aware of my releasing these feelings, but our relationship which  had all but died, re awakened and is a great source of ongoing learning  and beauty in my life.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">One  can also forgive the self, releasing feelings of guilt and inadequacy  that resulted in undesirable behaviour that one finds difficult to live  with the memory of.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Once  the technique is learned, it is possible to practice forgiveness every  time one feels emotions blocking up with negativity against a person,  institution or even the self.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Yoga and Breathing:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">I would be</span><span style="font-size:small;"> embarrassed to speak about yoga and breathing before such an august  audience whose knowledge of the subject is much wider than my own.   Since my paper is subjective, however, please allow me to say that for  me, breath is</span><span style="font-size:small;"> my most precious gift of life.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">Any time of the day or night I catch myself breathing shallow and then </span><span style="font-size:small;">consciously </span><span style="font-size:small;">breathe</span><span style="font-size:small;"> with deep gratitude.  I visualize</span><span style="font-size:small;"> the breath of life that connects us to everything on earth and literally makes us one.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">The  fairly regular practice of my simplistic knowledge of yogasanas and  pranayama have had a healing effect on my body, emotions, improved my  understanding of people and relationships, my ability to learn</span><span style="font-size:small;">,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and </span><span style="font-size:small;">if not </span><span style="font-size:small;">be in different dimensions</span><span style="font-size:small;">, at least be aware of different dimensions</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  There is something about moving, stretching and breathing in special ways that though I do no</span><span style="font-size:small;">t understand how it happens,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> it takes one outside the self and deep into the self</span><span style="font-size:small;"> helping to maintain a kind of </span><span style="font-size:small;">d</span><span style="font-size:small;">ynamic balance, where there is </span><span style="font-size:small;">chaos and</span><span style="font-size:small;"> also order.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> In a way, it teac</span><span style="font-size:small;">hes me how to ‘ride the cycles’</span><span style="font-size:small;"> t</span><span style="font-size:small;">hat I will speak about</span><span style="font-size:small;"> later</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">New perceptions of life, situations, actions</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;"> – living and learning creatively</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;">:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">The above models showed me that t</span><span style="font-size:small;">here  is no need to leave your life, your city or your spouse and go into the  forest or mountains to gain a new perspective.  Everything is perfect  as it is.  Everyone and everything can be your problem or your teacher,  depending on which way you are looking at it.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> You can allow your boss to keep hammering you into the ground, or you  can perceive him as a poor misguided soul who needs someone to  understand him, or you can see him as a mythical beast and yourself a  small but physically agile and mentally cunning hunter!  There is no end  to the possibilities…You can even deeply forgive him every morning  before you go to work, releasing yourself fro</span><span style="font-size:small;">m the feelings of resentment.  Then g</span><span style="font-size:small;">o to work and experience</span><span style="font-size:small;"> the miracle!</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Once we accept that situations in life are inevitable, b</span><span style="font-size:small;">ut also multidimensional, we</span><span style="font-size:small;"> can live more creatively, using more and more of our</span><span style="font-size:small;"> locked in potential to </span><span style="font-size:small;">synchronize our </span><span style="font-size:small;">own </span><span style="font-size:small;">dance with</span><span style="font-size:small;"> the rhythm of life.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Another truth we all know but find hard to accept is the cyclic nature of existence.  We have to learn to Ride the Cycle</span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;">!   My parents spent almost a year laboriously teaching me how to stay  balanced on a bicycle.  My brother on the other hand, just jumped on and  rode! </span><span style="font-size:small;">(Some people need a lot of assistance, some people need more time…)  Of</span> <span style="font-size:small;">course we are n</span><span style="font-size:small;">ot on a bicycle, we are riding </span><span style="font-size:small;"> multi-cycle</span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;">:  some parts are up, while others are elsewhere; some areas are circling  in this direction and some in another…I guess the ‘normal’ people are  those who try to gather all the cycles together and keep things level  and in control.  Those</span><span style="font-size:small;"> who are able to use more of their creative potential may be able to  retain balance in multiple spheres.  I am guessing that schizophrenics  choose a different cycle, one at a time. </span><span style="font-size:small;">Imagine a roller coaster. O</span><span style="font-size:small;">nce we lose our sense of ‘upness’ and ‘down-ness’, </span><span style="font-size:small;">and our ‘fear of falling’, </span><span style="font-size:small;">Riding the Cycles can be pure joy.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">As we learn and grow, take on and let go:</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Intuition</span></strong><span style="font-size:small;"> becomes stronger, sharper.  We learn to trust it more.  There is less incidence of error.</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Intuition is something hard to explain, but every one of us has experienced it almost tangibly.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">The ‘I’ </span></strong><span style="font-size:small;">becomes less and less, and </span><span style="font-size:small;">a </span><span style="font-size:small;">feeling of ‘oneness’ with people, situations and things begins to permeate one’s being.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Openness </span></strong><span style="font-size:small;">allows the Light to shine through, dispelling Shadows of Doubt and the Darkness of Fear.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">These</span> <span style="font-size:small;">above three are</span><span style="font-size:small;"> a</span><span style="font-size:small;">lso cyclic: </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">O</span><span style="font-size:small;">ne listens to one’s </span><em><span style="font-size:small;">intuition</span></em><span style="font-size:small;"> (which is very soft and impercept</span><span style="font-size:small;">ible in the beginning); </span><span style="font-size:small;"> O</span><span style="font-size:small;">ne </span><span style="font-size:small;">experiences an increased feeling of </span><em><span style="font-size:small;"> ‘one</span></em><em><span style="font-size:small;">ness</span></em><em><span style="font-size:small;">’</span></em><span style="font-size:small;"> with ‘the other’, (which is difficult</span> <span style="font-size:small;"> because the ‘I’ is very assertive in rema</span><span style="font-size:small;">ining separate till we ‘know’ the self</span><span style="font-size:small;"> better</span><span style="font-size:small;">); </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">W</span><span style="font-size:small;">e are </span><span style="font-size:small;">more </span><span style="font-size:small;">able to</span> <em><span style="font-size:small;">overcome doubts and fears</span></em><span style="font-size:small;">,</span> <span style="font-size:small;">and </span><span style="font-size:small;">the cycle sets in motion. </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">It cannot be perceived as a linear journey</span><span style="font-size:small;"> from weak intuition to strong; from separate ‘I’ to connectedness; or from doubt and fear to consciousness.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> It is always dynamic, cyclic…</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Changed p</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;">erception of Family Home Education:</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">As a parent </span><span style="font-size:small;">of c</span><span style="font-size:small;">hildren who do not go to school but learn naturally, at home and everywhere, I have learned to remember that:</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">I  do not own my children.  They are mine and not mine.  They are in my  control and out of my control.  They are in my sphere of influence and  beyond any influence I may try to impose upon them. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">I  do not know what is best for them. As parents we often tend to have  hopes and dreams on our children’s behalf, then without too much thought  or research</span><span style="font-size:small;">, we</span><span style="font-size:small;"> set about trying to get them into that stream</span><span style="font-size:small;">, or some stream,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> without any guarantee that what we are doing is </span><em><span style="font-size:small;">really</span></em><span style="font-size:small;"> good for them in the long run, and will</span><span style="font-size:small;"> actually</span><span style="font-size:small;"> turn out the way we imagine. </span><span style="font-size:small;">Each child has their own Inner Guide.  We often make too much noise for them to remain cent</span><span style="font-size:small;">e</span><span style="font-size:small;">red and listening</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to their own Inner Guide</span><span style="font-size:small;">. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">When I try to control my children’s</span><span style="font-size:small;"> actions, learning, destiny, I completely rob them of the mystery, magic and their own creative response to life.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">They are sometimes my parent/teacher/wise person</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  Our relationship, like everything in life is multi dimensional – growing always deeper, wider, closer, further…</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Our relationship and our lives together are cyclic, </span><span style="font-size:small;">each with</span><span style="font-size:small;"> ups and downs and round and rounds; sometimes intersecting, but n</span><span style="font-size:small;">ot always.  Respecting their</span><span style="font-size:small;"> space and</span><span style="font-size:small;"> their</span><span style="font-size:small;"> journey is a sacred duty</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">What should I control?  Or rather, where should I put my effort?</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">In the self.  We are selfish beings!  Modern religions and societies have conditioned us to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> be ‘selfless’, to put others before ourselves, that god is a separate authority male figure that judges our every action</span><span style="font-size:small;"> including selfishness</span><span style="font-size:small;">…This makes us unconsciously shun the self, and we do not even realize</span><span style="font-size:small;"> how difficult it becomes to disallow</span><span style="font-size:small;"> ‘others’</span><span style="font-size:small;"> comments, judgements, authoritative pronouncements, implicit and  explicit demands and expectations from colouring our own knowledge of  the self. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">We all love to grumble.  When I listened to my complaints about the government, the church, my spouse, my chil</span><span style="font-size:small;">dren, and also</span><span style="font-size:small;"> to other peoples’ non stop complaints</span><span style="font-size:small;">, I discovered a pattern. </span><span style="font-size:small;">First of all it is usually repetitive; the same words, phrases and grouses.  Secondly,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> each indiv</span><span style="font-size:small;">idual has their own pet complaints</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  Thirdly, it serves as a distraction from the self, as the finger is always pointing outwards. </span><span style="font-size:small;">I tri</span><span style="font-size:small;">ed an experiment of relating my</span><span style="font-size:small;"> words, sentences, perhaps</span><span style="font-size:small;"> in the form of</span><span style="font-size:small;"> metaphors, </span><span style="font-size:small;">similar to the dream technique</span><span style="font-size:small;">, to my own condition</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  Since we are loth </span><span style="font-size:small;">to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> face our own unconscious, it is sometimes easier to read into others’  pet grumbles, so I would also look for similar sentences and see it  first in someo</span><span style="font-size:small;">ne else’s situation and then check back to see</span><span style="font-size:small;"> if it also applied to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> my own situation.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> It is interesting to observe that those sentences, phrases and  metaphors mirrored the exact things that I was dissatisfied with in  myself, but was unable to address consciously. </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;"> Example 1:  I was furious</span><span style="font-size:small;"> at the education system; the way that children were </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">f</span><span style="font-size:small;">orced to wake up before they are ready to wake up, brush, bathe, dress and eat</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">f</span><span style="font-size:small;">ast in order to catch the bus or reach school in t</span><span style="font-size:small;">ime; sit still for hours listen</span><span style="font-size:small;">ing </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">t</span><span style="font-size:small;">o things that are mostly of no interest to them, write copiously, meaninglessly;</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">m</span><span style="font-size:small;">emorize things for tests and examinations that add quantities of knowledge that </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;">ome students retain, and others do not</span><span style="font-size:small;">, and most may not use….and before they </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> realize it, their </span><span style="font-size:small;">w</span><span style="font-size:small;">hole childhood has been lost.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Fun and play is always cut short </span><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;"> </span> <span style="font-size:small;">by bells o</span><span style="font-size:small;">r calls </span><span style="font-size:small;">f</span><span style="font-size:small;">or homework and </span><span style="font-size:small;">after school </span><span style="font-size:small;">tuition.  The littlest children are subjected to this </span><span style="font-size:small;">now, for fear</span> <span style="font-size:small;">o</span><span style="font-size:small;">f being left ‘behind’ since ‘everybody is doing it’.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;"> When I looked closely</span><span style="font-size:small;"> at myself, I was doing the same thing to myself.  Forcing </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">m</span><span style="font-size:small;">yself awake before I was ready to wake up naturally; even though I haven’t</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">h</span><span style="font-size:small;">ad a job outside the house for the past 15 years, I was always in a rush to ‘get </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">t</span><span style="font-size:small;">hings done’ and more and more things would pile up to get done, and it was</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">a</span><span style="font-size:small;">lways impossible to</span><span style="font-size:small;"> finish, because, in housework and childcare, there is </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">n</span><span style="font-size:small;">ever an end point where you can say, “Ah! My house is spic and span, I never </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">h</span><span style="font-size:small;">ave to clear the mess again”.  Or, “The children are complete, I don’t have to </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">d</span><span style="font-size:small;">o a thing”!</span> <span style="font-size:small;">I was caught up in meaningless tasks that I felt I had to discipline</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">m</span><span style="font-size:small;">yself to do, keeping up meaningless social relationships for fear of being rude,</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">k</span><span style="font-size:small;">eeping quantities of things in case I needed them later, but in the end never</span><span style="font-size:small;"> using</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">a</span><span style="font-size:small;">ny of it for years; writing copious </span><span style="font-size:small;">‘</span><span style="font-size:small;">to do</span><span style="font-size:small;">’</span><span style="font-size:small;"> lists that would never end, and always </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">k</span><span style="font-size:small;">ept me on edge about when will all this ever get finished…No time for fun, for</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">p</span><span style="font-size:small;">lay, for joyful interaction with the children</span><span style="font-size:small;"> (that</span><span style="font-size:small;"> I didn’t send to school so that </span><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">we </span><span style="font-size:small;">c</span><span style="font-size:small;">ould</span><span style="font-size:small;"> live and learn in joy together!)</span><span style="font-size:small;"> No time for introspection, meditation, yoga</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">a</span><span style="font-size:small;">nd breathing.  No time for the people I care about.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;"> T</span><span style="font-size:small;">he solution is not</span><span style="font-size:small;"> ofcourse to neglect the ‘to do</span><span style="font-size:small;">’ list</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  But then o</span><span style="font-size:small;">ne may ask, how </span> <span style="font-size:small;">can one fit</span> <span style="font-size:small;">in </span><span style="font-size:small;">e</span><span style="font-size:small;">verything one has to do and wants to do and needs to do.  Some of my </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">solutions are</span><span style="font-size:small;"> already mentioned in the above</span><span style="font-size:small;"> sections on ‘living and learning </span> <span style="font-size:small;">cr</span><span style="font-size:small;">eatively’, </span><span style="font-size:small;">‘</span><span style="font-size:small;">perceiving life, </span><span style="font-size:small;">s</span><span style="font-size:small;">ituations and actions differently</span><span style="font-size:small;">’</span><span style="font-size:small;">, ‘opening floodgates of</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> awareness and </span><span style="font-size:small;">p</span><span style="font-size:small;">inpointing focus</span><span style="font-size:small;">’.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;"> Example 2:  I blamed and felt resentment towards my spouse and children.  I</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">w</span><span style="font-size:small;">ould think, “Because of him/them, I am tied down to this house/housework</span><span style="font-size:small;">/</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">n</span><span style="font-size:small;">ever ending monotony”. </span><span style="font-size:small;">Practicing the same above mentioned solutions</span><span style="font-size:small;"> my</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">resentment </span><span style="font-size:small;">m</span><span style="font-size:small;">agically evaporated </span><span style="font-size:small;">, </span><span style="font-size:small;">I experienc</span><span style="font-size:small;">e</span><span style="font-size:small;">d health and healing,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> time</span><span style="font-size:small;"> opened up, opportunities appeared</span><span style="font-size:small;"> before me, space</span><span style="font-size:small;"> increased,  new dimensions were revealed…there is</span><span style="font-size:small;"> no limit to the possibilities.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> T</span><span style="font-size:small;">his does not mean that one will never fal</span><span style="font-size:small;">l back into traps of habit.  When that happens one has to just</span> <span style="font-size:small;">h</span><span style="font-size:small;">op back on the cycle</span><span style="font-size:small;"> (or rather remember that you are always on it)</span><span style="font-size:small;">…eventually</span> <span style="font-size:small;">it goes up, and </span><span style="font-size:small;">if </span><span style="font-size:small;">one </span><span style="font-size:small;">truly K</span><span style="font-size:small;">now</span><span style="font-size:small;">s that, on</span><span style="font-size:small;">e</span> <span style="font-size:small;">begins to loose the </span><span style="font-size:small;">a</span><span style="font-size:small;">ttachment to ‘up’ and the fear of ‘down’.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">The next point</span><span style="font-size:small;"> is connected to the previous point, and I am beginning to feel the limitations of this linear form</span><span style="font-size:small;"> of presentation</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  (I have already had to refer back</span><span style="font-size:small;">.   If anyone prints out this paper to read or share, do stick the papers  end to end forming a ring and read it from anywhere, referring backwards  and forwards!) </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">In a  kind of awareness exercise, I try to test my actions for authenticity.   Am I doing this because I like to, or because I feel it is what I should  be doing.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> I</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">h</span><span style="font-size:small;">ave  a mental habit of wanting to finish the unsavoury tasks before  embarking on the work I enjoy.  As described earlier, the unsav</span><span style="font-size:small;">oury tasks were never</span> <span style="font-size:small;">ending</span><span style="font-size:small;"> – they just went on and on for 12-13 years!  It is important to know  that all things do not have to be done at once; that things postponed  indefinitely </span><em><span style="font-size:small;">can</span></em><span style="font-size:small;"> eventually get done, if they are important enough; unimportant things  postponed indefinitely become less and less important till they melt  into nothingness; if you do the work you love to do, or engage with p</span><span style="font-size:small;">eople, situations that you love -</span><span style="font-size:small;"> time, space and energy increase…infinite possibilities emerge…</span><span style="font-size:small;">your feeling of lightness and joy overflows and begins to infect people around you.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Look  deeply to find out what is keeping us from doing what we are truly meant  to do.  Once we stop blaming our spouses, politicians, bosses, in laws  for keeping us from doing what we love, and find the courage to face  what the real obstacles are, they vanish.  All obst</span><span style="font-size:small;">acles are phantoms of our minds, easy to dispel once recognized.  It is </span><span style="font-size:small;">simply </span><span style="font-size:small;">recognition that takes effort.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">The New Education has to make some bold brave steps:</span></strong></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">From objectivity to subjectivity:</span></strong></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">We proudly pronounce our current system a</span><span style="font-size:small;">s very scientific.  We like to prove everything ‘sc</span><span style="font-size:small;">ientifically’.  Much research is done to prove</span><span style="font-size:small;"> facts. </span><span style="font-size:small;">(For each fact, one can look up the </span><span style="font-size:small;">inter</span><span style="font-size:small;">net for an equal and opposite fact!  This is good, because we don’t </span><span style="font-size:small;">ever </span><span style="font-size:small;">have to fight with each other about anything any more.  Everything has been proved as true by some and false by others!) </span> <span style="font-size:small;">But the proofs are</span><span style="font-size:small;"> based on the mechanistic</span><span style="font-size:small;"> model.  Education has not kept pace with the changes in scientific und</span><span style="font-size:small;">erstanding that is coming into alignment with</span> <span style="font-size:small;">ancient </span><span style="font-size:small;">mysticism.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> A fact is a fact only according to certain criteria, only momentarily in time, </span><span style="font-size:small;">o</span><span style="font-size:small;">nly if perceived in a fixed state</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> We need movement, dynamism, creativity…Changing our world view is imperative.  This information is not really new at all!</span> <span style="font-size:small;">I don’t know if I need to simplify it as under, but here goes:</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Importance of changing our world view</span></strong> <strong><em><span style="font-size:small;">and living the change</span></em></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;">:</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;"> Mechanistic world view.                                  Quantum/Mystical world view.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <span style="font-size:small;">Perceives everything including                    Perceives the entire universe as </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">humans as machines.                                    organic.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">Perceives everything as                                Perceives everything as one</span><span style="font-size:small;">.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">separate.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Perceives everything as constant                 Perceives everything as </span><span style="font-size:small;">dynamic.</span> <span style="font-size:small;"> </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">in space and time. </span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">Perceives the observer as                             Perceives an observer as</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">having no influence over the                       inseparable from the observed,</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">observed.                                                      In fact, a ‘separate’ observer</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> influences the observed.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;"> Perceives a fixed reality through                   Perceives infinite possibilities</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">u</span><span style="font-size:small;">nending potential that defies our</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;"> the five senses. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">sensory experiences</span><span style="font-size:small;"> of reality.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Principles of quantum/mystical method to be applied</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;"> in education</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;">:</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">E</span><span style="font-size:small;">ducation </span><span style="font-size:small;">viewed differently, can be </span><span style="font-size:small;">available to all humankind including </span><span style="font-size:small;">adult </span><span style="font-size:small;">illiterates and children, mentally and physically cha</span><span style="font-size:small;">llenged, rich and poor…By changing ou</span><span style="font-size:small;">r conditioned view of education, learning, choices, and life, </span><span style="font-size:small;">we can change our </span><em><span style="font-size:small;">experience </span></em><span style="font-size:small;">of life,</span><span style="font-size:small;"> educa</span><span style="font-size:small;">tion, learning and choices</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  L</span><span style="font-size:small;">earning is holistic, holographic, s</span><span style="font-size:small;">imultaneous with everything</span><span style="font-size:small;"> going on within </span><span style="font-size:small;">and without </span><span style="font-size:small;">the self.</span><span style="font-size:small;"> It is rooted in subjective experience.</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">There  is not one kind of learner, nor one kind of teacher.  As we discover our  own individual identities, we also discover our oneness with each other  and all of creation.  In this spirit, the new education can manifest.    We discover our ability to create and co-create.  This is no new  concept.  It has been around forever.  It needs to be widely experienced  and the process, accelerated.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">View education as a creative art – The Creative Art of Education:</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <strong><span style="font-size:small;">Is subjective. </span></strong><span style="font-size:small;">It starts with the self, moves on to ‘the other’, exploring fact </span><em><span style="font-size:small;">and </span></em><span style="font-size:small;">fiction, turning full circle and ending with the self. </span><span style="font-size:small;"> Continuing on in ever new circles…</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Therefore there is no external curriculum, no external judgement, assessment or</span><span style="font-size:small;"> examination. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <strong><span style="font-size:small;">Is about creativity, play and exploration.</span></strong><span style="font-size:small;"> Colle</span><span style="font-size:small;">ction of factual knowledge can be</span><span style="font-size:small;"> by per</span><span style="font-size:small;">sonal choice of the student, in their area of interest, talent or quest.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <strong><span style="font-size:small;">Challenges the whole self in multidimensional ways.</span></strong><span style="font-size:small;"> There is no need to sit for long hours in one place, using the mind in one way, or a pre ordained structured way.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size:small;">·</span> <strong><span style="font-size:small;">Pushes every boundary</span></strong><strong><span style="font-size:small;">,</span></strong> <span style="font-size:small;">till we</span><span style="font-size:small;"> as students of all ages, get a glimps</span><span style="font-size:small;">e of our own infinite potential, replacing the rather stagnant state of being that predominates today.</span></p>
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<p><strong><span style="font-size:small;">Conclusion:</span></strong></p>
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<p><span style="font-size:small;">There is a beautiful centre of Light in each of us, in each one of you.  Let us close our eyes</span><span style="font-size:small;"> and visualize this golden truth. </span><span style="font-size:small;">Experience your special treasure within…your deep intelligence…your creativity.  Visualize your</span><span style="font-size:small;"> Light becoming bigger and bigger and expanding till it is larger than your own physical body and it touches someone else’</span><span style="font-size:small;">s expanding Light.  Allow our Lights to envelope</span><span style="font-size:small;"> everyone in this room</span><span style="font-size:small;">.  Experience this Oneness in Consciousness.  When you are ready, slowly open your eyes.</span></p>
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<address><em><span style="font-size:small;">Urmila Samson </span></em></address>
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